HOW TO GET A GUY TO GO DOWN ON YOU – IT'S SUPER SIMPLE

How can one get a guy to go down on them? Which is the most effective way how one can get down on a woman? Looking for a better way to get down on a woman? This article explains how an individual can go down on you.

We crave our sexual life to be like the one in movies. There are many ways to get a guy to go down on you. They include; proper hygiene, shaving, and wearing sexy lingerie.

Getting down on our partners always seems like a difficult topic to introduce to your partner. Individuals always want to get that pleasure and excitement, but they fear telling their partners. It may be because they are unsure how to take it or fear being judged. Giving head is always pleasurable and a turn, especially when done right. It helps you and your partner bond and be close to one another. It may even make you achieve some orgasms. Although, some guys are not fans of going down on their women. You can always change their mind, but by being patient with them and doing the following;

Proper Hygiene

Adolfsson et al. (2017) explained that no one would fancy going down on someone whose vagina is smelly or smells awful. Make sure that the first time they want to give you a head, your vagina is not smelly. The first impression is what will always give you out. They will make it their last impression. If they go down on you and are not impressed by the smell, you are guaranteed that they will never go down on you and tell you why they don't do it. Make sure the first sensation they get is that they will love and make it easy for you to go down on you again. Ensure your private area is always clean and wash it whenever you take a bath.

Don't Stuff His Face

 It is all fun and games until they feel forced to do it. You love it when they go down on you but make sure that you do not know stuff or force their face down on you. Please avoid using your hands to force their face down there as they may get suffocated. When you are always forcing them to go down on you, you are likely to make them feel like it is a chore they should always perform on you. At times they may get bored and prefer not to go down on you. Be gentle and respectful to them. If they wish to do it, let them do it the best way they know how but do not force their face down on you as it will not be fun anymore.

Shave the Bush

Unless your man has told you that they love it when your vagina is not shaved, kindly shave it. According to Smith & Caceres (2017), if they go down on you and find that the area is bushy, they are likely to get turned off easily. You might get that this is why they do not go down on you because your area is not shaved. Wax the area and make it smooth, and when they try to go down there, they are guaranteed their face lying on a smooth surface as they are giving you the pleasure you have always wanted to have.

Wear A Sexy Lingerie

Avoid baggy clothes or granny panties when you are going to bed. Leave those clothes and wear them only when you are on your period. Lewis (2021) stated that seduce them anytime you feel like you want them to go down on you and try and look good and sexy. Let the man have the time to play with your sexy lingerie. They may even end up kissing your whole body or even remove the lingerie with their teeth. You may get surprised as they start to lick your pussy as they are down there.

Watch Porn Movie Together

Try and get yourself to watch an erotic and romantic movie together. You can pick one you have already watched, and you know it has a character going down on their partner. You can ask your partner to imitate what the character is doing on their partner. It may be during role play. Your partner will then get the hint or the idea that you want them to get down on you. They will do so, and you will get to feel some pleasure.

Avoid Being Selfish

You may get that your partner does not go down on you because you do not return the favor. As much as you want to feel some fun and pleasure, your partner also wants the same for themselves. Ojoawo & Akande  (2020) explained that if they go down on you and give you some head, return the favor by giving them a great and exciting blowjob. The next time you want them to go down on you, try and be the first person to initiate the whole thing. Blow their mind away and give them a blow job that will excite them. Be sure that they will do the same for you because they have seen your effort from you.

Appreciate Them

When they go down on you, try and show them how much you love it. Make one know that you love it when they go down on you. Let an individual get to see the reaction you get when they go down on you. Thank them when they are finished. It will make them know that this is their partner's favorite activity, and they will always do it for you to feel pleasured and wanted.

Conclusion

Your partner should never feel like getting down on you is a routine, or it will be boring. Let them do it when they want to do it. Please do not force it on them. A partner who loves you will always know what you need to get pleasured. They will not try to have reasons as to why they can't go down on you. The best thing is always having some communication with them. Both of you should talk about what they always wanted. You will then agree on what each of you loves to feel sexually pleasured. However, you can also try the different ways highlighted in this article.

References

Adolfsson, A., Hagander, A., Mahjoubipour, F., & Larsson, P. G. (2017). How vaginal infections impact women's everyday life: women's lived experiences of bacterial Vaginosis and recurrent vulvovaginal candidiasis. Advances in Sexual Medicine, 7(1), 1-19.

Lewis, A. (2021). Seduction In The Mind (Vol. 2). Mindbender Press.

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