icon
Free UK Shipping - Plain Packaging - Same Day Dispatch
Free UK Shipping - Plain Packaging - Same Day Dispatch
Skip to content
WHY SHE WON’T LEY YOU EAT HER PUSSY

WHY SHE WON'T LEY YOU EAT HER PUSSY


Content Verification

Tatyana Dyachenko
Written by:

Psychologist and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
Medically Reviewed by:

Medical Doctor
Katie Lasson
Fact Checked by:

Sex and Relationship Adviser

🍑 Key Points in a Nutshell 🌟

    • 💭 Communication is everything – chat before, during, and after playtime.

    • 🍬 Patience pays off – rushing can ruin the moment.

    • 🤝 Comfort is key – emotional and physical boundaries matter.

    • 💥 Confidence is sexy – own it, but respect her limits.

  • 🔑 Trust and safety first – always have a plan for care and respect.

💼 Expert Advice and Tips 🗝️

    • 🎯 Ease into it! Sometimes, a little gentle approach works wonders.

    • 💬 Check in often. Ask what feels good or if she needs something different.

    • 🕯️ Set the mood! A little candlelight or soft music can enhance the vibe.

    • ⚡ Relaxation is key. Make her feel comfortable, safe, and in control of her experience.

  • 🍯 Take your time. The slower, the better – anticipation makes it all the more tantalising.

There are times when women just get turned off by men and won't let them go down on them and eat their pussy. Some of the reasons may include; being selfish, dull on the activity, and doing it all of a sudden.

Most of the time, you will find women that want to be given head by their partner and feel them in their pussy. The thought of someone going down on them excites them as they may get stimulated and may even get an orgasm. However, sometimes, one feels better off without getting it from their partner. Many instances can turn someone off and make them not want it anymore. Not because you don't enjoy the whole activity, but how someone behaves while giving it to you makes you hate it. Some of the reasons why she will not let you eat her pussy include;

Impromptu Oral Sex

When engaging in oral sex, you need to plan. Set the mood for your partner to get prepared and enjoy the feeling. It would help if you started with foreplay activities. Start by fingering your partner and making them get wet.

You may be emotionally attached to your partner, but how they start may turn you off. Avoid undressing your partner and going down on them without setting the mood for sex. It may disgust a woman leading to painful sex. According to Berman (2005), setting the mood helps the vagina lubricate for smooth penetration.

Being Selfish When Going Down on Her

Going down on your partner should not be only one-sided except when your partner asks you not to because they do not love it. Most of the time, you may get that you may have shown little interest in her needs when you go down on your partner. You may be doing it because they gave you a blow job, but you do not care about getting her to reach climax as it is returning the favor, according to you. Your partner is likely to feel that the energy is off and you do not want to eat her out, and they may decide not to let you continue. It is because you turned them off mentally and emotionally. A woman may never bring up the issue as they may be embarrassed that you do not enjoy eating her out and do not like going down on her. Anytime you decide to go down on a woman, they may deny you the access because they have in mind that you intend to return the favor of them going down on you.

Dull and Not Active in Oral Sexual Activity

You may think that your partner does not like being on the receiving end or that they do not like it when you go down on them when the main problem is how you do it. Going down on a woman does not necessarily mean that the only thing that you have to do is lick her pussy only. You can tap into their creative mind and let them feel some intense stimulation. You can do o much with the pussy to attain a mindblowing orgasm. Lewis & Marston (2016) suggested that you could suck a  pussy and use your hands when giving them oral sex. Do not put yourself in a position where you give them head to be done with the whole activity with no intention of making them feel pleasure.

The habit of Judging or Humiliating Her Often

Everyone has their kinks and fetishes, and no one should judge or shame you for being a kinks fan. Pattanaik ( 2014) stated that some men humiliate their women because they are fans of oral sex. Most men shame the women or want you to go down on them. A woman may not be interested when you get down on her. Women remember what a man says, which may affect their sexual arousal and intimacy. You may have good intentions, but it may not matter as the first impressions are what matter the most.

The Right Way to Go Down on Her

Ask for Consent First

Ask for Consent before going down on a woman. You may not say it verbally but by touching her gently and in a sexy manner. You can kiss their lips and touch their boobs to arouse them. A man can also ask for Consent by talking dirt to a woman, watching a porn movie together, and massaging her body before going down on her. These sexual activities can get a woman in the mood. Consider a woman's character and likes before going down on the. They may like activity, but it doesn't guarantee forced sex. Once she gives you the go-ahead, you are at liberty to do what you already planned. Sex without consent is rape, as Coy et al.(2013) stated.

Show Some Excitement

Show excitement when going down on a woman so she may feel desired and loved. Some women are sensitive when it comes to their bodies. When you show how excited you are when planning to eat her, they will loosen up and feel like you desire them more. Women need reassurance that they are wanted and have a great pussy that a man enjoys eating and licking. They will always look forward to allowing you to get down on her when you, a man, show, recognize, and appreciate them.

Conclusion

Most ladies like it when their men eat them out. It is an activity that they enjoy very much and always look forward to. However, it all depends on your experience to know if they can allow you to give her head again. There is nothing worse than getting a partner who once was not interested in eating you out and suddenly is interested. The first impression that you gave them will always stick in their minds, and they will not agree to you doing it. Learn to praise her and show her that she is wanted and desired. This way, they are in a position to agree to you eating her out.

References

Berman, J. R. (2005). Physiology Of Female Sexual Function And Dysfunction. International Journal Of Impotence Research, 17(1), S44-S51.

Coy, M., Kelly, L., Elvines, F., Garner, M., & Kanyeredzi, A. (2013). Sex Without Consent, I Suppose That Is Rape": How Young People In England Understand Sexual Consent. Office Of The Children's Commissioner.

Lewis, R., & Marston, C. (2016). Oral Sex, Young People, And Gendered Narratives Of Reciprocity. The Journal Of Sex Research, 53(7), 776-787.

Pattanaik, D. (2014). The Man Who Was A Woman And Other Queer Tales From Hindu Lore. Routledge.

Previous article Self-Massage of the Prostate: Benefits, Techniques, and Prostate Massager Tips