WHAT IT'S LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH A PLEASURE DOM

Some people fantasize about what it is like to have sex with a pleasure dom. This article will help you attain your fantasies. Some of the feelings a person has when having sex with a pleasure dom include; no aggression even when it is intense, playful, and pain-free.

Almost everyone has fantasized about being involved in BDSM activities with someone who makes you get all the pleasures you wish. The dominant person is the one who has to do all the work so that you may feel. However, it would help if you put all your trust in them, or they need to have earned that trust for this to happen because you will transfer your powers and make them completely control you. Some of the feelings that you will get to have when having sex with a pleasure dom include;

The Punishment Rendered Are Fun, Playful and Pain-Free

Some people are afraid of getting into the BDSM activities because they are afraid of being in an uncomfortable position. Being in different positions and having a backache always put them off. The pain they experience will always be a turn-off for them. that is what the BDSM activities are believed to be about, pain and some throat choking.

However, when having sex with a pleasure dom, all the activities they perform on you do not involve pain, as Miller (2020) stated. Their main focus is making you achieve an orgasm if it involves edging. It might frustrate the partner to feel aroused simultaneously, but the result is always fulfilling. You will never be able to get enough of the feeling.

Even When It Gets Intense, There's No Aggression

The dominant partner is known by the attitude they give and not by the kind of stuff they do to the submissive ones. When one is about to reach the climax, most doms prefer getting aggressive with their significant other. Most submissives are okay with the feeling, but one sometimes wants it to be light with little aggression. According to Williams et al. (2015), a pleasure dom makes a person aroused and excited, making sex more playful. In such a case, a person can give their whole power to the dominant without being told to and not because they have been asked to.

It Never Leaves a Mark

People who love the BDSM games love it when the activities leave some mark on them, as Taormino (2012) noted. Some of the marks, such as scratches, bruises, and soreness, are always reminders of the activities and the role they take part in. However, the worst thing is that the pain of the bruises may go on for a while, and you may start hating the whole thing.

Moser & Kleinplatz (2007) revealed that pleasure dom might do activities like spanking, paddling, and smacking but will not leave any mark on you or feel any pain. They can use the paddles to smack the ass, and it may be intense but still will not hurt you. You feel some pleasure. You will only get tired by the tugging and pulling that you got by restraining yourself from getting an orgasm or the tension you feel when you are about to get an orgasm.

They Dominate Without Being Domineering

Pleasure doms have full control over another person without asserting their will over yours. You always submit fully without being told to because you are sure that they will give you the pleasure you want to achieve. The pleasure dom will have the confidence to lead you on and make you submit to them without even noticing it. You will feel them taking over you without commanding you or doing anything to please them. Those who dominate and domineer tend to tame the submissive by inflicting pain and imposing most ideas on them. Some submissives love to be defiant and challenging when engaging in sexual activities but do not want to be tamed. They love being dominated without feeling like they are being imposed on.

Feeling That You Are Getting Fucked By Ultimate Givers

Pleasure doms are great when giving you so much pleasure than you can handle. Sometimes, it can be more than you can take. Some people feel some guilt because they are always on the receiving end. You may try all you can to make them feel like they are always appreciated, and they may feel the appreciation. However, you will always notice that their main focus is to make you feel the pleasure you deserve at the end of the day. You might get an orgasm, but you will always get more than you can count. Once you overcome the guilt of being the only one on the receiving end, you will have the fun of your lifetime. It is because the pleasure dom's main focus is to ensure they give you all the pleasure they can. Some of them do not like being on the receiving end, and it will take you begging for them to accept being pleasured. They mostly find joy in giving their partners pleasure.

Conclusion

The existence of pleasure doms makes some people interested in the BDSM activities. This made many individuals want to be on the submissive part as they loved the care they were always given with their pleasure doms. People learn that BDSM activities do not focus majorly on inflicting pain, but it is a broad topic with lots of activities to choose from. It is okay and acceptable if you do not want to be bruised or be left with marks, and they do not have to impose the activities on them as they have a person who can be light on them and still feel pleasure. A pleasure dom can spank and scratch a sub or any other partner but fail to leave a mark. People who love having sex with pleasure doms are said to be healthy physically and emotionally. However, this doesn't apply to every person. It's important to have an after-care with your partner after engaging in such BDSM activities.

References

Miller, S. (2022). BDSM.

Moser, C., & Kleinplatz, P. J. (2007). Themes Of SM Expression. Safe, Sane, And Consensual: Contemporary Perspectives On Sadomasochism, 35-54.

Taormino, T. (2012). Fifty Shades Of Kink: An Introduction To BDSM. Cleis Press.

Williams, D. J., Thomas, J. N., Prior, E. E., & Walters, W. (2015). Introducing A Multidisciplinary Framework Of Positive Sexuality. Journal Of Positive Sexuality, 1(1), 6-11.