How To Use A Chest Harness Strap-On Dildo

Strap-on dildos are sex toys designed to be worn during a sexual session. The harness and its dildo are made in various styles and shapes. There are variations on how it fits a person and attaches itself to the harness. The sex toy can be used by anybody as long as you develop some interest. The chest strap-on dildo is strapped on the chest and can be used in many ways, including vaginal and anal penetration. It may also be used for mutual masturbation and oral sex.

For Vaginal Penetration

Before using the chest harness strap-on dildo, indulge in foreplay with your partner. You may turn her on by oral sex. Then, use a lot of lubes to lubricate the vagina or anus and the sex toy. You can use a clitoral vibrator to stimulate the clitoris as you finger her vagina. Do that rhythmically until she is fully aroused. After foreplay, wear the chest strap on the dildo and lie on your back. Tilt your head slightly using a pillow or cushion. Lubricate the dildo to make penetration easy. Then, let your partner sit on your chest as the dildo faces against the vagina. Rub the tip of the dildo on the lips of the vagina as you tease other erogenous zones like the breasts, the clitoris, the neck, or the waistline. When she is ready, gently allow her to directly sit on the dildo until it is full in her vagina. Let her move up and down in a rhythm as the dildo thrusts the cunt. You can also try other positions that are compatible with the chest harness strap-on dildo.

For Anal Penetration or Pegging

How To Prepare For Anal Play

Unlike vaginal play, anal sex needs thorough preparation. You should prepare for anal sex in the following ways:

Talk About It

You cannot introduce anal sex without talking it out. It helps create intimacy and confidence before the actual act. Also, it makes penetration easier and more comfortable. Discuss what anal sex toys will be used, what the limits are, and any fantasies that you may want to try. Come up with a safe word to use when you need your partner to stop. This will create trust, and you will be aware of the boundaries not to cross.

Experiment With It On Your Own

Before putting the toy in your lover's butt, explore your ass hole first. If you feel uncomfortable when you put a finger in your butt, you are not fit to put it in somebody else's. Also, to boost your confidence, do a series of masturbation. It will also help you learn about yourself from another dimension.

Clean Up

Your partner should take a shower two to three hours before the act. Also, you can use an anal douche and an enema to clean the anal cavity thoroughly. That should also be done two hours before anal penetration. Cleaning the butt hole boosts your partners' confidence during penetration. Additionally, it does away with the bacterial infections that may be transmitted by anal toys.

Lubricate

The anus does not self-lubricate like a vagina. For that reason, a lot of lube should be used. The lube can be applied using a lube applicator in generous amounts. Water-based lube is commonly used. Apply thick lubricants, such as silicone-based and oil-based lubes that do not dry off easily to avoid frequent reapplication. You can also use anal lube.

After thorough preparation using the procedure above, let your partner sit on the dildo on your chest. The movements should be gentle to avoid any injuries. Also, the positions can be shifted and be the ones to be penetrated.

Care And Maintenance Of Chest Harness Strap On Dildo

Cleaning

The toy should be washed before and after every use. Use mild unscented or antibacterial soap with warm water to wash it. A dishwasher can also be used, and you can wash the toy as a normal glass utensil. If the need arises, the dildo should be separated from the harness and be washed separately. However, that is dependent on the nature of the material used for making the harness and the dildo. After washing the sex toy, dry it using a towel.

Storage

After cleaning, store the toy in its package or a place free from open air. That will reduce the chances of dirty air particles landing on it.

The Bottom Line

The chest strap-on dildo can be used like any other dildo. What matters is the positions explored. Not many positions can be explored when someone wears a dildo on the chest, and the toy is only advantageous for people who love deep penetration. Also, many dildos are compatible with this harness because of its compatibility. Since it entails cheap technology, the difficulty in using it is minimized. In most cases, it does not use power unless your attachment is a vibrating dildo., in which case, you need to charge when it runs out of power.