THE JOY OF PAIN AND SUFFERING- WORLD BDSM DAY
It is so hard to imagine having the desire to experience the painful pleasure. You want to cry the tears of joy. You can have the joys of pain and suffering for the bad girls on the world BDSM day.
Based on the ABDSM day, there are some things that you need to know; when having the bondage sex, there is bondage and discipline and dominance and submission where the partners can switch the roles. People who find pleasure in the bondage sex are those who receive pleasure by inflicting pain ( a sadist), and the person who gets pleasure by receiving pain is known as the masochist. Bondage sex is where a partner is tied or restrained in one sex position to receive sex pleasure. The joy and suffering that partners get while in the bedroom are different from domestic and sexual abuse because it is done with the consent of the two parties, and it is perfectly healthy. In the play, some partners dominate the sex, and the others are submissive; this can be talked out by the two partners on who to play which role. This article outlines some of the bondage toys and why you should try bondage sex.
Types Of The DBSM Plays.
The Pet Play
The pet is submissive to its owner, and the dominant person is the owner. The pet does everything it is told by the master, who is the boss. You are supposed to play like a pet to make the session enjoyable by eating right out of the bowel, going for a walk on leashes, and you do more things than your pet does, and this will be the way to act submissive to your partner; the pet play for the beginners. According to Taormino (2012), several accessories are used in the pet play, such as the tail harnesses and the ears; there are also some blindfolds in the game, but the main one is the collar. You should not have any clothes to feel yourself on the inside.
Splosh play
The splosh paly is also called the WAM. It mainly focuses on the daily means to be neat and proper for the session. The things used in this sex play can be your best snack to have the moment you desire, for example, groundnuts, peanut butter, whipped cream, and granulated sugar; you can use the non-foods like the baby oil and shaving cream. This is a day to have the pressure to be proper and neat. According to Carter (2012), food sploshing is about mental submersion via texture and physical sensation in the play.
The Age Play
The age play is not clung to the BDSM, but there is a power exchange between the caregiver and the little one who can engage in some BDSM plays. Some people want to live up to their human sexuality nostalgia from a tender age. The submissiveness reverts from any age; it can be either between 5- 15 years. BDSM gives everyone the chance to explore and try out the things they have been imagining without being judged. Get wild and satisfy your sexual desires. Some people would think that bondage sex encourages sexual abuse and human degradation, which is not it because this is done by consent and trust in your significant other. This is also a way that some people use to get off the stress of the day and have a simple mind state by submission, and this will be a chance for the people who area font of being dominant to take care of them. This can involve the use of the handcuffs for foreplay.
The Wax Play Bondage
The wax play is one of the bondage joy of pain and suffering. Do not use the common candle to get the wax; to make it better, you can get the candle designed for the play, and to up the game, you should use the massage candle. While using the candle, be ready for the damage and mess that will come with the play. Therefore, use the waterproof sheets or investigate the sheets, and lay down the towels beforehand. The candle wax with a; the low temperature will increase the stimulation on the skin, making you feel every bit of the moment.
The Knife Play
Boucher (2018) noted that knife play is mainly for mental sensation and stimulation. Your body responds to environmental stimuli differently; thus, the course draws blood. This is the main intention of knife play. There are many misconceptions about this play made by the people who are unsure what happens in the play. It is not necessary to have a real knife in the game to make it clear. Those people are okay with the dangerous knife in the game. You can use things like a credit card, butter knife, or a spoon in the knife's place. freeze these items to increase the sensation.
Reasons Why You Should Bondage Sex
Enhances Pleasure
Zadi (2021) stated that participating in the BDSM alerts the subconscious mind known as the subspace that most of the submissive partners call the floaty. They feel relaxed and have peace of mind during and after the play in this state. It also increases the person s excitement and enhances the other alertness of the other senses; this is one of the benefits of the bondage sex play.
Builds deeper connections
Bondage encourages couples to explore their sexual desires and fantasies. It increases the trust between partners, thus strengthening the bond. A couple that practices bondage has good communication skills and is assertive due to the deeper connection they have built. The control and submissive are shown in various bondage plays. The sense of vulnerability makes the session romantic.
Improves Sexual And Mental Health
People who practice BDSM have fewer sexual problems than others. They also have lower sexual functioning distress. Bondage play reduces anxiety and physical and emotional stress among the receiving partner.
Conclusion
Bondage sex will give you the joy of pain and suffering you are looking for if you are a daring person and ready to go to the extreme and try new things. There are also some things you should consider while having the bondage play because there are possible risks. The bondage sex play might cause physical injuries mainly to the partner playing the submissive role, hematoma being the most occurring injury. It also might be fatal, especially when using strangulation notes and drugs, which are the common cause of death.
References
Boucher, N. R. (2018). Relationships Between Characteristics Of Autism Spectrum Disorder And BDSM Behaviors.
Carter, L. (2012). The Appearances Of Beauty, A Personal Journey: A Poetics Of Sustainability (Doctoral Dissertation, Murdoch University).
Taormino, T. (2012). 50 Shades Of Kink: An Introduction To BDSM. Cleis Press.Zadig, A. (2021). Yes, Mistress: Why Men Crave Female Domination. The Savio Republic.