4 SEXY IDEAS TO PUT A HOP IN YOUR STEP
When couples are together for too long, the relationship tends to become boring and predictable. You end up talking about the same old topics every day, and when work gets stressful, there isn't time for any recreational activities you used to enjoy together. Couples that have been together for years might not have the fire at the start of the relationship. You might also be an adventurous person that cannot just have a regular relationship and sex life. What can you do if you feel like you are slowly slipping into a boring routine?
To avoid a stagnant relationship, you must be willing to get out of your comfort zone and do things differently. You might not have been into the ideas initially but changed your mind with time. In this light, why not review some things you might not have done earlier in your life and see if your mindset has changed? This article will discuss some sexy ideas to try out and keep the fire in your relationship burning.
CBD Products to Amp Your Sex Life
According to Chesney, Oliver & McGuire (2021), CBD stands for cannabidiol and is a compound found in the cannabis plant. Boggs et al. (2018) explained that CBD does not cause the high that tetrahydrocannabinol or THC does. Research shows that cannabidiol could help improve one's health without intoxication. One of the benefits it has is on your sex life. Because of this, it has been added to products that can amp up your sex life. How can CBD Improve your sex life? According to CA (2018), CBD can help with relaxation, making your mind calm during sex. Though CBD does not give you the effect of having sex while high, it reduces stress and anxiety that may accompany you. This may be because you feel shy or are not comfortable with exposing your body. CBD can be found in the form of oils, edibles, and even lubes that can be used during sex. Discuss with your partner which product you may be willing to try out.
Intimacy Without Sex
Intimacy does not have to be physical or just about sex. You can enjoy other aspects that can make both of you happy and satisfied while taking a break from sex or in instances when sex is not possible. Intimacy without sex can be achieved by doing the following:
Physical Touch
Touch each other consistently. Physical touch does not have only to happen when we want to get into the sheets with them. Touch your partner throughout the day. It might be kissing, sharing a warm hug, or giving them a foot rub or massage. Stroke their cheek and run your fingers through their hair. Hold hands while taking a walk or watching a movie. Doing this will strengthen your attraction to one another and heighten your feelings without having sex.
Have Shared Interests
According to Rosenberg & Chopra (2015), connections happen when we have common things with our spouses. It is one of the things that may have attracted us to them. You can do an activity that you both enjoy. Be it swimming, playing a sport, watching movies, or volunteering together. Watching the other person happy will make you feel happy or even heighten your love for them. Doing an activity together also creates space for new and interesting conversations to take place.
Communicate
Sharing the day and talking just about anything with our lovers is what brings us closer to them. Silence will broaden the gap between us, and we may end up like strangers sharing a space. Talk with your partner about every small detail of your day. Though silence can be comfortable and mean that you are close to one another, an extended period of silence can mean that you have nothing else to share with that person. So keep taking, share with them your dreams and challenges. Open up to them about your fears and insecurities. Most importantly, listen to what they have to say.
Order a Sex Toy that You Have Never Tried
If you are okay with including sex toys in your relationship, or you are okay with using them yourself. Why not browse and get yourself something new. Add a sex toy you have never used to your collection. This can also depend on whether you want to try something new or achieve something. Be open to adventures because you do not know what might excite you to the core. Do not restrict yourself from only trying sex toys. Other bedroom sensual things to try out include varied types of condoms, edible treats, sex games, lubricants, and oils, and not forgetting, sexy lingerie or dress-up gear.
Reenact Your Favorite Movie Sex Scenes
Movie fans have those scenes that always get them wet or want to get some that instant. Are there movie scenes that made you imagine yourself in the place of the actors? Why not note the scenes, watch them with your spouse, and reenact them with your spouse. It might be a '50 shades of grey' scene or just an emotional moment from The Notebook. Get yourself in the mood and put yourself to the test. After this, spending time home for a movie night will be something you always look forward to.
Conclusion
Getting out of our comfort zone makes things exciting in our life and relationship. Adventures are always there for those who would not want a boring life. Always look for things to make you alive, exciting, and interesting. Try out CBD products to give life to your sex. Take a break from sex altogether and look for other ways to improve intimacy in your relationship. Find other ways to have fun with your spouse by acting out movie sex scenes that excite you and adding another sex toy to your collection. Use these ideas to put a hop in your step and make your relationship exciting.
References
Boggs, D. L., Nguyen, J. D., Morgenson, D., Taffe, M. A., & Ranganathan, M. (2018). Clinical and preclinical evidence for functional interactions of cannabidiol and Δ9-tetrahydrocannabinol. Neuropsychopharmacology, 43(1), 142-154.
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Chesney, E., Oliver, D., & McGuire, P. (2021). Cannabidiol (CBD) as a novel treatment in the early phases of psychosis. Psychopharmacology, 1-12.
Rosenberg, M. B., & Chopra, D. (2015). Nonviolent communication: A language of life: Life-changing tools for healthy relationships. PuddleDancer Press.