WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RIM JOBS AND MORE ORGASMS
People prefer vaginal sex to anal penetration, others prefer using toys, but those who need to expand their anal repertoire opt for a rim job. It might spice things. Talk to your lover because no one should be pressured.
Rimming is not new because people talk about it. It is a pleasure because there are nerves in the anus. These nerves trigger intense orgasms without penetrative sex. Rimming is the act of tossing salad, peach-licking, ass eating or eating the booty like groceries. It involves penetration of the tongue, licking, or kissing the area around them. However, it should not be perceived as gay practice. Communicate with your partner before bringing up the idea. Do during foreplay if your partner is against anal penetration. Here are some of the things you need to know before rimming.
Introduce the Idea to Your Partner
Do not surprise your lover with Peach-licking. Introduce tossing before undressing. Introducing a new sexual act should be done in a non-sexual moment to make the process intimidating. It gives your partner time to think and decide whether to add the act to their menu or not.
When introducing rimming to your partner, be creative for them to understand and accept. For example, tell them you feel good whenever you lick their butthole, or you saw an article and would wish to try it. These statements make them feel comfortable participating in the conversation. Here are ideas on how to incorporate rimming into your sex life:
Consider Actions That Create Similar Sensation as Rimming
Your partner may opt for the peach-licking pony. Share your fears and reasons for not participating. Honor their decisions because there are misconceptions about anal play. Use that opportunity to educate your lover about the pleasure found in the process. Introduce erotic movies of rimming to give you the desire to try.
Discuss the Safe Sex Practices During Rimming
Rimming facilitates the transmission of STDs, and It involves the transmission of bacteria through the mouth. Be keen when using sex lubes unfit for the body when ingested. You may eat poop if your partner does not observe hygiene. Ingesting poop transmits bacteria and intestinal parasites. Use a dental dam to reduce risks. Dental dams are thin and square to put in your genital. They are made of latex to give a penetrative sensation.
Avoid Brushing Your Teeth Before The Process.
Do not brush your teeth two hours before and after rimming. Rimming is like getting fluoride into the body. Brushing your teeth may cause tiny tears in your mouth, facilitating bacterial transmission.
Consider Incorporating the Front Genitals
Increase pleasure by layering sensation during play. Add sensations; nipple clamps, ball gags and vaginal fingering or let your partner touch the genital while stimulating the butt for orgasms.
You may Add Some Sex Toys.
Let your partner wear a butt plug while rimming to create a sustained feeling of fullness. The feeling brings about intense and extreme pleasure. Try vibrating anal toys because they relax the muscles and are exciting. Use a sex toy with a flared base to prevent it from sliding into the anal causing injuries. Consider the type of material. Silicone-based toys smell better than those with chemical scents.
Avoid Licking Back to Front
Wiping from back to front is dangerous because it facilitates bacterial spread. The principle applies to rimming. Your partner may transfer bacteria and STDs from the anal to the mouth if they are not using a dental dam. The giver may also contract the infection. Talk with your partner about your status before rimming.
The Bottom Line
Rimming is a sexual aspect among couples. It adds pleasure and cements the relationship. However, discuss with your partner before introducing ideas in your sex life. Talk with your partner about your STI status before rimming to reduce the chances of getting infections.