Everything You Need To Know About Rimming

What is rimming? How is it done? Is it safe? These are some of the many questions someone who is new to this act would ask. Rimming, also known as analingus, is a sexual act where an individual pleasures their partner orally at the anus. It may involve sucking, licking, kissing, or any other activity done orally during a sexual act. There is a misconception that rimming is gay because it directly focuses on the anal hole. However, a person's sexual identity has nothing to do with rimming. Therefore, if you love anal sex or want to give it a try, go for rimming. Although rimming is safe, there are health risks involved, and as such, you should take some precautions. Here is everything you need to know about rimming.

Who Does Rimming?

Anyone can have anal sex play as long as you need it. As long as you are healthy and have no sores or infections, be free to try out rimming.

Is The Act Safe?

Probably yes. However, like any other sexual play, it comes with various risks that you should tackle. The risks that you should be aware of include;

Bacteria

The anal hole bears a lot of bacteria. Therefore, cleaning the butt hole thoroughly before any rimming is essential. This helps reduce awkward and embarrassing moments and eliminates bacteria that may cause infection. Digestive parasites and bacteria such as salmonella and coli pass through the anus during defecation. These microorganisms may make you sick if you ingest them. Additionally, these bacteria may cause severe vaginal infections. Even for pleasure, you need to avoid spreading bacteria to other parts of the body via fingers, tongue, penis, ae sex toys.

STIs

Make sure you practice safe sex in rimming. Examples of diseases that can be transmitted through rimming include: herpes, gonorrhea, genital warts, syphilis, and hepatitis A & B. To protect yourself against these infections, use a dental dam.

Does Practicing Rimming Mean You Are Into Anal?

Rimming is a sexual act that can be enjoyed alone with no other flanking acts. Enjoying rimming does not necessarily mean that you are into anal sex. Rimming can be used as foreplay to stimulate your partner into other sexual activities. If you don't love penetrative anal sex, your partner should not force you into it. However, if you love anal play, talk to your partner about it so that you make the necessary preparations.  

How Do You Bring The Idea To Your Partner?

Some people view anal play as taboo, and your partner may be one of those people. Communicate and get consent from your partner. An honest, open talk takes you on board. A person's attitude towards sex and anal play depends on their upbringing, social misconceptions, and beliefs. Be ready to accept any response – whether negative or positive. If your partner brings the topic up, hear their concerns out. Do not be judgmental. Speak to your partner in a comfortable, rational way that natures your trust. No one should be pressured into sexual acts t they are not into. If both of you do not agree to the play, wait until the declining partner is ready. Respect your partner's decision.

Do You Need To Reconsider?

Even though rimming is good and enjoyable, there are some scenarios where skipping it is the best. You will need to shelf the sexual play if your partner has digestive tract complications. These complications include gas, constipation, cold sores, bleeding, open sores, gas, diarrhea, and digestive infections. Do not let embarrassment hinder you from being open and honest with your partner about taking an off.

Can You Landscape?

Having pubic hair between butt cheeks is normal and perfect. However, wax or trim the hair if you feel uncomfortable, or use clippers to cut them off. Here are some pros and cons of shaving, clipping, or waxing your pubic hair.

Pros

All the feeling

Trimming or waxing your pubic hair provides a perfect surface area for sensation. The rimer's tongue comes into contact with the rimmie's butt, directly giving a more intense sensation.

Cleanliness

Having an anus that's free from hair is easy to clean. The possibility of toilet paper bits or towel fluffs sticking in your bum is eliminated.

Less hang-up

Once you have shaved your bum clean, you will not have to worry about its looks. It also helps you enjoy the mind-blowing sensations with peace of mind.

Possible Cons

Causes skin irritation

The anal hole is a delicate area, and there is a high possibility that irritation will occur once it comes in contact with wax and razor. If you have to trim, give your bum time to heal before rimming.

Ingrown hair

Regrowth of the bum hairs is a pain in the ass. As it grows, you will have to fight against itching, pain, and prickling every time. Although it's a short time effect, it's worth consideration.

The Bottom Line

As long as rimming is enjoyed, it is worth giving a try. It is a sensational act to consider a more pleasurable sex life. Consider the safety tips discussed above to avoid germs and bacteria when engaging in such acts. You can wear condoms if you like. Also, for easy action, you can use lube and oils to massage the butt hole and make it relax. Rimming can be done in any sex position that works the best with you. It is a pleasurable act that you should give a try.