YOUR SEXIER NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION

New Year’s resolutions do not always have to be about life goals. You can try and set some that improve your sex life as well. Some of the sexier New Year’s resolutions include; practicing safe sex, masturbation, and trying different sex styles. 

It is always great to set some resolutions of what you want to achieve for the New Year. If you are a person who sets them, think about setting some regarding your sex life. You can also include the ones you failed to achieve the previous year. Everyone would love to spice up their sex life. Don't make it a habit of having a normal sexual routine as it gets boring. This does not mean you change who you are, but you can try to get some sexier ways of improving your sex life. Think out of the box and get to experience new things. Some of the sexier New Year’s resolutions include;

Masturbation

We often get home really stressed or with many things in our minds. According to IX, S. (1996), masturbation helps relieve stress, relax your mind, and calm your body. If you masturbate, you can try doing it more often. Sexually touching yourself will help you know how your body responds to certain sensations. Your partner will also get to know what your sexual desire is and how they can make you get in the mood. It is always okay if you want to please yourself whenever the need arises. 

Practice Safe Sex 

There exists the myth that condom sex is not pleasurable. Therefore, many people avoid using condoms for protection. Some say that the condoms are uncomfortable, while others say they get a reaction to them. Moreover, others suggest that they can not find one that fits them well. These are misconceptions that we need to do away with. According to Laufer, M. (1968), the use of condoms is for one's safety against unwanted pregnancies or diseases such as HIV. One should have sexual intercourse with a condom for their safety. If you have sexual intercourse with someone you are unsure of their status, go for a checkup. Some people may have infections that would have been prevented if they had gone for a check-up or simply by wearing a condom. It is safe to go for checkups and learn about each other's health issues. Try to keep up with your partner's health.

Introduce New Sex Styles   

As humans, we usually get into a habit of being monotonous. Most people fear change and what it brings. Sometimes change is what we need in our lives to make them fun and interesting. Don't practice only one sexual position like missionary sex every time you engage in intercourse. Try introducing new sex styles and activities in your bedroom and exploring them with your partner. You can start with one style as you progress and learn about other styles. Some of the styles you can incorporate include cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. You can also try to bend your back and have some doggy sex. Once you have practiced them, you can choose the one that you feel works best for you and your partner and incorporate it into your sex life.

Try Sex Toys

Whether single or in a relationship, sex toys are fun to introduce to your sex life. They exist not only for females but males as well. We are often used to getting horny or feeling the urge for penetrative sex but have no partner to do it with us. It is okay to pleasure yourself using a sex toy and fulfill your sexual desires and needs. Your partner can also try to use the toys on you during foreplay. You can try out one sex toy at a time and get to choose which one you feel works best for you. Some of the sex toys include vibrators, dildos, and anal toys.

Birth Control

Some birth controls have the effect of making someone lose interest in sex. Women have talked about the issue of getting disgusted during sex because they are not in the mood for it. It would not seem fair for the man to ask for sex from the woman when they are not in the mood to participate in it. Most infidelity cases crop up from such situations. In such cases, they are advised to switch to other birth controls that favor them. You will always find the one that can get you back to your normal self and enjoy sex again.

Communication and Comprehension

For a relationship to work, one has to talk about their issues. We always assume that communication is what holds a relationship. However, the other person has to comprehend what you mean for you to communicate. You can talk as much as you want, but if the other party does not acknowledge or get to understand what you are saying, it won't make sense. Get to know what your partner likes and what her desires are. If it is sex, get to tell her that that's what you want and get their consent. You cannot act as a psychic in a relationship. Communicating and comprehending will make you build your relationship and connect with your partner.

Conclusion

Setting the New Year’s resolutions can be tricky, especially when you have to fulfill each one. While setting some of the goals that you plan to achieve, it is better if you involve your sex life as well. Every area requires some progress and development. It takes a lot of discipline to fulfill at least half of them. If you plan to set some sexier New Year's resolutions and accomplish every one of them, it will be better if you try one at a time. 

References

IX, S. (1996). Bringing Good News to the Body: Masturbation and Male Identity. Men's Bodies, Men's Gods: Male Identities in a (post-) Christian culture, 111.Laufer, M. (1968). The Body Image, the Function of Masturbation, and Adolescence: Problems of the Ownership of the Body. The Psychoanalytic Study of the Child, 23(1), 114-137.