BDSM Test: Discover Your Sexual Blueprint With This Kink Test

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What is a BDSM test? How can an individual discover their sexual blueprint? What is a kink test? This article explains what BDSM test is and how individuals can discover their sexual blueprint with a kink test.

The BDSM test, also known as the Kink Test, is a questionnaire for people who like erotic sex. BDSM is the acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. The kink test was a quiz created to determine how kinky people are. Kink is any sexual behavior that moves far away from the norms. Kinky people are sexually adventurous. It can involve bondage, using handcuffs, suffering, and even group sex. You are not kinky if you only perform only one or two ‘non-traditional sexual rituals. Here is a kink test of 30 questions to find out how kinky you are. The term we will describe how kinky you are will be vanilla. Vanilla in kinky sex means someone who is not exciting in the bedroom and adventurous. So the questions below will let you know how vanilla you are. The more points you score, the more vanilla you are, and the more points you score, the less vanilla you are. Therefore if you score over 80 points, you are less vanilla, meaning you are a very kinky person. If you score anything below 40 points, you have a lot of vanilla, meaning you are uninteresting in kinkiness. Anything between 40 and 80 points is averagely vanilla. It means you are not very kinky, but there are some hints of kinkiness in you. This article will go over the scale again after it is being done with the following test of 30 questions;

1. How do you feel when you see a pair of handcuffs

• Happy (3points)
• I do not feel anything(2 Points)
• Scared  (1 point)

2. Would you have sex with a stranger on the first date

• Yes( 3 points)
• Maybe (2points)
• Never(1 Point)

3. Have you ever French-kissed a stranger

• Yes (3points)
• No(2points)
• I can never(1point)

4. Have you ever had outdoor sex

• Yes ( 3 points)
• No (2 points)
• I can never(1 point)

5. Would you enjoy role-play?

• Yes (3 points)
• No(2 points)
• Never(1 point)

6. Would you let your partner spank you?

• Yes(3 points)
• No(2 points)
• Never (1 point)

7. How many one-night stands have you had?

• Countless( 3 points)
• Less than 5(2 points)
• None (1 point)

8. Have you ever used food during sex?

• Yes, I do ( 3 points)
• Sometimes (2 points)
• No food should not be in the bedroom(1 point)

9. Do you watch porn?

• Yes, I do( 3 points)
• Sometimes(2 points)
• Rarely( 1 point)

10. Would you be comfortable letting someone have your phone for a day?

• I would not be comfortable( 3 points)
• I will be a bit uncomfortable(2 points)
• I will be uncomfortable(1 point)

11. How many adult toys do you have?

• More than 4( 3 points)
• Less than 4( 2 points)
• None ( 1 point)

12. Would you let your partner touch your genitals/

• Of course( 3 points)
• Yes( 2 points)
• No( 1 point)

13. What do you think about bonding?

• I think it is awesome( 3 points)
• I would not mind( 2 points)
• I would not do it( 1 point)

14. Have you ever done bondage?

• Yes( 3 points)
• No(2 points)
• I would not do  it(1 point)

15. Have you ever been whipped during sex?

• Yes, and I liked it( 3 points)
• Yes, but I wouldn't say I liked it( 2 points)
• No( 1 point)

16. Have you ever been blindfolded during sex?

• Yes, and I loved the experience( 3 points)
• Yes, but I wouldn't say I liked it( 2 points)
• No( 1 point)

17. Would you call your man daddy or woman whore in the bedroom?

• I definitely would( 3 points)
• I probably would( 2 points)
• I would never do that(1 point)

18. Would you have oral sex?

• Yes, it is part of sex ( 3 points)
• If my partner wants me to do that, I would( 2 points)
• I can never have oral sex( 1 point)

19. Would you have sex with someone you do not like?

• Yes, I would( 3 points)
• I would be uncomfortable (2 points)
• I would never have sex with a person whom I do not like(1 point)

20. Would you have group sex?

• Yes, I would( 3 points)
• I probably would( 2 points)
•  I can never have group sex( 1 point)

21. Do you like when your partner dominates you?

• Yes (3 points)
• Depends on the mood( 2 points)
• No( 1 point)

22. Do you like when there is physical pain as part of foreplay?

• Yes( 3 points)
• I would probably like it( 2 points)
• No (1 point)

23. Would you like if your partners suffocated you like by facesitting or getting checked?

• I like that very much(3 points)
• I probably would like it( 2 points)
• No, I do not want that( 1 point)

24. Do you like when you are forced into submission?

• Yes, I like it( 3 points)
• I would not mind(2 points)
• I would hate that(1 point)

25. Are you open to trying new things this in the bedroom

• Yes( 3 points)
• Depends on what that new thing is ( 2 points)
• No( 1 point)

26. Do you like being watched by having sex?

• Yes ( 3 points)
• I wouldn’t mind(2 points)
• No( 1 point)

27. Would you walk naked around the house in the presence of someone else?

• Yes  would( 3 points)
• I would not mind( 2 points)
• I can never do that (1 point)

28 . Would you have sex in the kitchen?

• Yes(3 points)
• I would not mind(2 points)
• No ( 1 point)

29. Would you have sex with a much older or much younger person?

• Yes, I would( 3 points)
• I probably would( 2 points)
• I wouldn't (1 point)

30. Would you swap your partner?

• Yes, I would( 3 points)
• It depends on the mood( 2 points)
• I wouldn’t( 1 point)

Results 

How many points did you score?

Over 80 points – no vanilla, very kinky

Between 40-80 points – some few vanillas but kinkier

Under 40 points – vanilla, not kinky

Conclusion

The kinky test, or the BDSM test, tests how sexually deviant or raunchy you are. It gives people a chance to communicate about sex lightly. Kinks are always consensual. Tests such as the kink tests are usually fun because they serve as tools for self-evaluation. Taking the test while not sexually involved with anyone can also give you new desires that you may want to engage in to know which fetishes and fantasies you may want to pursue with a partner in the future.