How to Give the Perfect Blow Job
By Elena Ognivtseva
The ability to give a mind blowing blow job is one of the most important and impactful tools in every woman's sexual arsenal! Being great in bed is very important if you want to keep a man interested long term, and conversely men need to brush up their skills if they want to ensure that their partner stays keen and the passion lasts in their relationship. We aren't just talking penetrative sex here; foreplay is vitally important for a saucy and ultimately satisfying sex life.
If you feel that you're oral sex skills could do with a brush up then you're in the right place! Below I will share some straightforward and easy to follow tips on how to blow his mind.
Know what he likes...and if you don't know then ask!
The best way to give your man the blow job he's been dreaming of is to furnish yourself with the knowledge to tease and please him properly. If you don't know whether he prefers it fast and furious, or slow and sensuous (or a bit of both!) then ask him. You can also look for signs which will tell you if he's enjoying it or not. It's simple really; if he pulls away then ease off, but if his tummy muscles are jumping then you're on the right track! Bear in mind that the most sensitive part of the penis is the head, and that the sensitivity decreases away from the head. The underside is also very sensitive, so pay it plenty of attention with your tongue.
Mix it up:
Once you've found out that he likes don't be tempted to stick to just one thing. Mix up your speed, amount of suction, position and the use of your hands. If he likes it rough then make sure you spend plenty of time doing as he wishes, but switch to something slow every now and then. It's great to be a tease! You may also want to employ the use of a vibrating cock ring which will add a whole new dimension to the blow job. Try this Blissmate Vibrating Cock Ring.
Use lube:
Adding some flavoured lube is always fun and means that you're blow job will be wetter and more slippery than usual which will feel even more amazing! Having some extra lube will also mean that you can use your hands at intervals to stop your jaw from getting too tired and sore. Having a flavoured lube will also make the whole experience sweeter for you, especially if you choose a flavour you love. My personal favourite is watermelon or vanilla. Yum! Just remember that if you intend to have penetrative sex you need to ensure that the lube is condom safe. Try these System JO Flavoured Lubricants which comes in cherry, pineapple, raspberry, strawberry, tropical and watermelon.