HOW TO HAVE A SEXY NEW YEAR’S EVE THAT DOESN’T SUCK

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New Year's Eve comes with celebrations like Christmas eve does. People share different opinions on this day. Not everyone enjoys New Year Celebrations, and there are reasons why. If you want to have a sexy New Year's Eve that won't suck, there are factors to consider like, having a positive mindset, proper planning, and sticking to the plan.

New Year’s Eve means a lot, especially on a personal level. It's a time to celebrate the end of a year that is gone and welcome new beginnings with the approaching year. However, some people experience a sense of nostalgia as they reflect on the events that took place in their lives over the previous twelve months. Rather than any other holiday, this day is celebrated with much enthusiasm worldwide. This is when many set their new goals for the next twelve months as they toast and watch fireworks light up the sky. This particular day can be as sexy as you want it to be, but it can also turn out to be the most boring day you've ever had. The last thing you want is to have a boring New Year's Eve keeping in mind that you only celebrate it once. How do you make the most of this day?

Have a Positive Mindset

This is the first and most important thing if you want to have a sexy New Year's Eve. Some people will share different opinions about New Year's Eve and what has happened in the previous twelve months, which can hinder you mentally. You have to keep in mind that New Year's Eve presents new beginnings, and the old is gone with the year the previous year. A positive mindset will set the right mood for the awesome night ahead of you. Don't give in to stress and anxiety, as this can hinder your mind. Just plan for the night ahead and look forward to it.

Proper Planning

You only get this day once, and you want to make it as sexy as possible. Nothing prospers without a good plan; you can't wake up and decide that the night will be a blast. There are instances where this will work but not in all cases. You need a clear, laid-out plan if you want to make the most out of the festive season. Consider analyzing how you want to spend this night and what you want to do and with whom. Here are some questions to ask yourself that will help you make a plan for the night.

• Do I want to stay at home or go out?
• Who do I want to spend this day with?
• Where exactly do I want to go if I am to go out?
• What activities will happen at what time?
• What should I wear on this night?
• What kind of mood do I want to celebrate your New Year's Eve?
• What will I do when the New Year clocks in?
• What will I do after New Year's Eve?

There are no right or wrong answers to these questions, and after self-analysis, you will understand what you need to do to make the most of New Year's Eve.

Sticking to the plan

You made this plan and you need to stick to it. You should make this earlier, like a week or two before the new year's Eve night if you want to include friends and family.

According to Rath (2007), you don’t want to inconvenience someone; ask them if they already have their plans before including them in yours. On the night of New Year's Eve, you need to be a proper timekeeper to prevent any inconveniences, especially if you are going out. It would be best if you were not one who is swayed by the wind; you must stick to your plan.

There are instances where you can change them but keep in mind that this day also means a lot to you. Instances such as where your friends call you for a night out and you had decided to stay at home will have you change plans. However, do only what you want and not what your friends want. You want to have post-New-Years-Eve regrets about why you did something that you did not want to do; quite a bad start for a new year.

Having fun above everything else

This is more than a regular day. You celebrate New Year's Eve once a year and it should be taken seriously. However, unlike your birthday, where you celebrate with close friends and family, New Year's Eve is being celebrated worldwide, and you ought not to be left out in the fun, as Shamoun- Branes et al. (2011) stated. This is what makes the day what it is.

Whether you are staying indoors or going out, ensure that whatever activity you will participate in will be fun. You could have a party indoors overnight or a girls' or boys' night, and you can also go out and watch some fireworks or have a drinking spree with friends. Having fun will make New Year's Eve worthwhile and memorable throughout the year. The opposite of this, where you have a gloomy New Year's Eve, will also stick in your mind throughout the year.

Conclusion

The question of how to have a sexy New Year's Eve is dependent on you at a personal level. People have different opinions and perceptions about this time of year, and it is up to you however you choose to take it. Considering the points above, you have a pretty good idea of what will cut it for sexy to you. This sexy night can be indoors or outdoors, depending on what you want to go for on that particular night. The bottom line is that a properly planned day with all the factors considered is hard to go wrong. Ensure you have fun on New Year's Eve, as that is the essence of it.

References

Rath, T. (2007). Strengthsfinder 2.0. Simon And Schuster.Shamoun-Baranes, J., Dokter, A. M., Van Gasteren, H., Van Loon, E. E., Leijnse, H., & Bouten, W. (2011). Birds Flee En Mass From New Year’s Eve Fireworks. Behavioral Ecology, 22(6), 1173-1177.