Sex After Childbirth - The Kinky Way!
Sex After Childbirth - The Kinky Way!
Having your first or even sixth baby is a life changing moment and we all know how wonderful a new bundle of joy is, however, sometimes you need to take time out to look after yourself as a happy mummy is a scrummy mummy!
Of course with sleepless nights and days full of nappies, sex may be the last thing on your mind, but it is important to keep relationships strong as well as keeping your partner happy.
You partner will no doubt understand the reasons behind the lack of sex but if we’re honest we do worry about their eyes straying as we fight to get back to post pregnancy form. There are ways we can take control knowing that despite the massive life changes we are still the driving force behind that erection. Showing your partner that you still find them desirable and still want to please them also helps dispel any feelings of jealousy they may have with your attention focused solely on the new addition to the family.
Take a Tip
All babies sleep sometimes and although this is rarely during the night, you can find ten minutes during the day where you can treat your partner to a luscious blow job. They will be eternally grateful and you can also ask them to remember the favour for when you’re ready for the favour to be reciprocated.
Have an Orgasm
Another way to keep the flames alive is to invite your partner to join you as you bring yourself to orgasm. Depending on the type of delivery you may not be ready for penetration however you can still use clitoral stimulation to bring yourself to climax. This not only reminds your lover that you still have sexual needs, it makes them feel better about the cravings they are supressing whilst you’re out of action. They can join in and you can both enjoy some mutual masturbation and as each orgasm strengthens the pelvic floor muscles you’ll be back to normal in no time.
Use your Assets
One of the best (and sometimes worst) aspects of the weeks following childbirth is the rate at which your breasts grow. Whether you’ve chosen to breast feed or not at some point they may become uncomfortable for you, but just watch your partners eyes light up as they take in these new puppies! Many men will have mixed feelings as they know the swelling is due to milk meant for the baby, however even if they daren’t admit it, your swollen breasts turn them on a LOT! These new assets can also help your confidence as they’ll draw the attention away from your stomach, one area that women are most conscious about after pregnancy.
Get Kinky!
Now this is quite controversial and divides people into two sectors, those who find it utterly disgusting and those that find it extremely erotic. During light conversation try to decide your lover’s views on breast milk as some men adore this extra lubrication whilst others will run a mile. If he does like it, treat him to a tit wank where the milk will flow adding a warm natural lubrication, or ask him to suck your breasts as you bring yourself to orgasm. He may also like you to cover him with the white stuff just as he’s no doubt done to you countless times before!