TIPS AND TRICKS: SEXY ROLE PLAY IDEAS FOR THE BEDROOM
Roleplay is a great way to explore your sexual desires and try power play. Herein are roleplay ideas for coupes, including boss and employee, outdoor sex scenes, and playing an authority figure.
As society gets more open about sex and fetishes, more people embrace sexual scenarios and desire through acting and imagination. When it pertains to dipping your toes into new and innovative sexual waters, it's always a good idea to talk to your partner beforehand. Making room for trust and open communication will ensure a safe and sensual experience. If you're into the sexy doctor, hot plumber, or naughty builder roles, here are some roleplay ideas to get you started.
Role Play Ideas
An Erotic Massage Therapist
A massage that goes 'all the way' is a tremendous delight. If you're playing the masseuse, pay attention to all your partner's body parts before massaging them. The payoff will be considerably more rewarding as a result. If tantric massage is your style, you can also try lingam or yoni massage.
Boss and Employee
According to Foucault (1990), breaking taboos and generating power relations are common in role play. As a result, it's no surprise that work-related role plays are a bedroom classic. However, if you want to harness the office vibes, skip the bed and try having sex on a table or desk. While this may result in a bruised bum or frantic fumbling as you try to get your laptop out of harm's way, it will be worth it.
A Stranger
Get your spouse to approach you as if you've never met. They should also treat your body as if it's the first time they've seen it and take you with all the feverish lust that causes two individuals who don't know each other's names to rush into bed together. The excitement of stranger sex without worrying that the person you're sleeping with is a stranger who will abandon you the next day is arousing.
An Authority Figure
Since it involves an authority figure, the doctor/patient scenario is popular. However, it gets much sexier if the authority figure has the motive to touch you, especially if you're dressed like an attractive doctor or nurse. Give your lover a 'physical' and tell them that a common side effect of such procedures is that they will want to have sex with you more than ever.
Outdoor Sex Scenes
You may decide to enact the scene of a milkmaid or farmhand. Pretend you're rolling around in a haystack while practicing your southern American accent. Even if you're shagging with the window open and rolling about laughing at those bad accents, try to imitate the raunchiness of doing it outdoors and the romance of the woods.
Your First Time
Christen (2018) noted that most people's first experience was either unpleasant, embarrassing, or unfulfilling, and being able to relive it is enjoyable. Put on a soundtrack from your adolescence and attempt to recall that period of sexual tension. Bring that intense need to the surface and let it erupt again- maybe with more composure and expertise.
Yogi Master/ Instructor
Anyone can make a yoga roleplay work, no matter how flexible they are. You may go pro and stretch your body into spectacular yet sexual poses, or you can embrace your inner novice and waggle your bum in the air. Pretend to be a yoga instructor. This enjoyable, creative role play will motivate you to take ambitious poses and calmly tell your partner where to position their limbs.
Monarchy
Whatever your political views on the monarchy, royal role plays can be fun. You may not care for any royals, but that doesn't mean you can't imagine yourself as a princess or prince. Most people believe the monarchy hasn't been overthrown because the whole thing is fascinating. However, don't leave all the pleasure to the royals. Bring dynasty's eroticism to your one-bedroom flat and demand that your partner display their loyalty to you.
Best Friends Turned Lovers
If you have ever had a crush on one of your best friends, you know how intense the sexual tension can be. Play on it with the snatched looks and the confusion about how they feel about you. The tug of war between deciding whether or not to make a move can be exhilarating.
The Plumber
If you've ever watched an old-school porno, you know how heated things can become when the plumber, carpenter, electrician, or handyman arrives. You may pretend to be alone at home with your kitchen sink sprung a leak; you're soaked and unsure what to do until the plumber arrives to save the day.
Pilot/ Captain
Couples who can drive have a leg up on the competition, especially a boat or plane is extremely sexy. Consider yourself a passenger on a private plane or a luxury yacht, and your pilot/captain says over the intercom, "Please report to the cabin immediately."
Wrestlemania
Are you a big WWE fan? Act as two wrestlers attempting to pin each other. This roleplay is ideal for those who love the mutual physical intensity in scenes and can incorporate a sense of competition. As with any role play, all players must be mindful of their partners' weaknesses and remember to use safe words if things get out of hand.
Business and Pleasure
Pretend one of you is a sex worker while the other is the client who has hired this individual for the night. Wait for the doorbell to ring before placing the money on the nightstand. If you're a sex worker, make a list of what's available and what's not. Set forth what you want to happen if you're the client. After you've finished bargaining, you can have purely transactional sex.
The Bottom Line
Even if you've been with your spouse for a long time, there are many ways to spice up your sex life. You don't need to buy expensive sex devices or contort your body to make things extra steamy. All you need is a good break from your typical interactions with your companion. Embracing unusual roleplaying concepts like the ones listed in the article above. Roleplay allows you to take a break from your daily routine without having to leave your house. It can be a chance to rewrite your sexual past.
References
Christen, J. (2018). Virginity.
Foucault, M. (1990). The history of sexuality: An introduction, volume I. Trans. Robert Hurley. New York: Vintage, 95.