THE BEST COUPLES’ SEX TOYS FOR BEGINNERS & EXPERTS ALIKE: HOW TO INCORPORATE THEM INTO YOUR LOVE LIFE

A couple’s sex toy can be an amazing addition to your love life. Not only can it allow you to explore new sensations with your partner, but it can also help you take your intimacy to another level. Many people think that adult toys are reserved for couples that are already in love, but this isn’t the case at all. They are a great way to get you and your partner closer than before. If you’re ready to try something new, here are some of the best couples’ sex toys out there.

Why Try It?

Couple sex toys are not just fun and games; incorporating them into your love life can make it even better. Whether you are brand new to the whole idea of sex toys or an experienced user, this article will show you why there are so many benefits to using toys with your partner, and how to incorporate them into your love life if you're interested in giving them a try. 

Benefits 

Frederick et al. (2021) explained that they spice up your love life and can bring a stop to the monotony of the normal bedroom experience of just normal sexual intercourse. Adding up a sex toy to your bedroom experience will give you a whole new experience, now both you and your partner can experience a heightened sensation without really being selfish about it. Sex toys might just be the key to finding out what your partner likes most. 

They might be your way to a more intense and mind-blowing orgasm. Most individuals want it better and more intense than the last experience they had; sex toys can do just that. Sansalone et al. (2017) explained that they can help you achieve orgasms that you have never felt before; this will only help to strengthen the relationship between you and your lover.

What are some good beginner’s toys?

Try out some beginner-friendly toys that are designed to increase blood flow and sensitivity around your love button, which can make foreplay feel incredible. There is no real hierarchy of sex toys in matters concerning beginner or expert toys because it all comes down to a person's view. If you are new to sex toys here are some sex toys that you might consider trying out.

Dildos

Davis & Hines (2020) explained that there are different sizes, shapes, and colors of dildos. You can choose one according to your body type and size, there is no set standard on what size you should use. If you decide to try out a couple of dildos with your partner, make sure that it is a smooth silicone ones because some love toys might be irritating if they are rough or made from cheap plastic. Some of these are bendable so give them a try. Dildos don't vibrate so you will have to introduce other love toys into play if you want additional stimulation in that area. That doesn't mean that couples shouldn't try them out though because more often, not with lots of lubricants will lead to an orgasmic encounter regardless of vibrations.

Wand Vibrators

If you are looking to add some vibrations into your play session with a partner then try out wand vibrators. Unlike regular dildos, they can be used on their own without any need for lube or other stimulation. If you are using it on your own then you will want a nice water-based lubricant to ease penetration. Wands are great because they fit nicely in a purse or handbag so if you're traveling with one it's not too big of a deal to keep it discreetly inside.

Clitoral Vibrators

Lieberman & Schatzberg (2018) explained that if you and your partner are looking for a toy that you can use during intercourse then a clitoral vibrator might be something that you want to consider. These love toys stimulate your clit at just the right speed so that your orgasm intensifies during sex rather than becoming an interruption in-between positions. Many couples have had success with these because they often require lube or nothing at all which makes them a great couple toy. Better yet they come in different sizes and shapes to fit your specific preference.

What Are Some Advanced Couples’ Toys?

If you’re looking to push things further, a few advanced toys are out there that are sure to kick things up a notch. These can be larger and more complicated than basic couples’ toys, so they may not work if you don’t have a good experience. And if you think these aren’t something you want in your bedroom, consider getting them as part of a prank—no one will ever suspect they were bought just for fun.

Vibrating Cock Rings

A cock ring is nothing more than a small circular band of silicone or other material which wraps around your manhood. They aren’t all that different from ordinary rings—they even share some of their more utilitarian purposes. Dubberley (2021) explained that these vibrating cock rings not only offer an increased blood flow to the balls but they offer a powerful orgasmic vibration to both partners too.

Vibrating Double Ended Strap on Dildos

Double-ended dildos are pretty much exactly what they sound like—two straps on, strapped onto each end of a sturdy harness. These straps come in all different sizes and forms, so there's no shortage of possibilities to try out here. Some toys allow both partners control over their dual sex toy while others transfer power entirely to one end or another. Some include vibrators that can be placed on either end as well. They are an excellent choice for any lesbian couple who wishes to spice up things.

Bluetooth Toys

You can enjoy sex toys, better during couples play time, you can stimulate each other using your smartphones. Get up close and personal from anywhere in the world. Or maybe they’re at work whilst the other is at home so they just want them to be thinking about them. You can incorporate these Bluetooth toys during foreplay for a much more interesting time with your lover.

How Does One Bring Up The Topic?

The biggest hurdle you'll face is discussing it with your partner. If sex toys aren't already a part of your love life, it can be easy to feel embarrassed about bringing them up—especially if you don't know what they will think. Ultimately, you and your partner are responsible for finding a way to work through your feelings; bring up the topic in whatever way seems most comfortable, and keep the conversation going from there.

Conclusion

If you want to find out if sex toys are right for you, there are a few great ways to try them out first. If they make you fancy, then you can think about incorporating them into your love life. Some tips from experienced users include: Couple sex toys are a great way to spice up an already healthy relationship. When used with some foreplay and oral, your partner might just have their best orgasm ever. It may be something that will benefit both of you in more ways than one.

References 

Davis, J., & Hines, M. (2020). How large are gender differences in toy preferences? A systematic review and meta-analysis of toy preference research. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 49(2), 373-394.

Dubberley, E. (2021). More sex play. Even more fun than before!. Parkstone International.

Frederick, D., Gillespie, B. J., Lever, J., Berardi, V., & Garcia, J. R. (2021). Sexual practices and satisfaction among gay and heterosexual men in romantic relationships: A comparison using coarsened exact matching in a US national sample. The Journal of Sex Research, 58(5), 545-559.

Lieberman, H., & Schatzberg, E. (2018). A failure of academic quality control: The technology of orgasm. Journal of Positive Sexuality, 4(2), 24-47.Sansalone, S., Silvani, M., Leonardi, R., Vespasiani, G., & Iacovelli, V. (2017). Sexual outcomes after partial penectomy for penile cancer: results from a multi-institutional study. Asian Journal of Andrology, 19(1), 57.