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SEX TIPS; USING TOYS IN YOUR TANTRA

SEX TIPS; USING TOYS IN YOUR TANTRA

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SEX TIPS; USING TOYS IN YOUR TANTRA

  • ใ€ก by Jekaterina Gussarova

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๐Ÿ’– Tantra & Toys: The Cheat Sheet ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™‚๏ธ

๐Ÿ”ฅ Slow & Sensual โ€“ Tantra is all about slowing down and savouring every delicious moment.


๐ŸŒ€ Breathe & Connect โ€“ Sync your breathing with your partner to deepen intimacy.


๐Ÿ”ฎ Toys = Energy Enhancers โ€“ Use vibrating wands or pleasure rings to amplify tantric energy.


๐Ÿ’ฆ Lubrication = Liquid Magic โ€“ Keep things smooth and sensual with a high-quality lube.


๐Ÿ›‘ Consent & Comfort โ€“ Communicate, set boundaries, and make sure you're both in a blissful state!

๐Ÿ”ฎ Top Tantra Tips from Our Experts ๐Ÿง

  • โœจ Set the Mood: Candles, soft music, and low lighting work wonders.
  • ๐Ÿ’‹ Eye Contact: Lock eyes for deeper emotional connection (and extra spice!).
  • ๐ŸŒฟ Explore Senses: Try feathers, warm oils, or silk for tantalising touch.
  • ๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ Take Your Time: Tantra isnโ€™t a race โ€“ enjoy every slow, teasing moment.
  • ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™€๏ธ Post-Play Cuddles: Keep the connection going with pillow talk and snuggles.

Sex based on tantra teachings involves most or all of the senses because it is sensual sex. This article helps to know the toys you can buy for tantric sex, including paddles and floggers, tickler toys, nipple clamps, wand vibrators, massage candles, and oral gags.

Tantric sex is slow, sensual lovemaking that seeks to connect the partners wholly, and It has been described as a celebration of sensuality, as Biernacki (2006) noted. It is an archaic practice, and it may be odd to some people that anyone can incorporate sex toys into tantric sex because Tantra is religious. However, you can include sex toys in every sexual activity if you want. You may use them in tantric sex without incorporating religious expectations but rather for being mindful and feeling more connected to others. You do not have to be religious to have tantric sex, and including toys in your tantric experience will therefore be based on your preference only, devoid of religious vibes. The following are some of the toys that you can include in your tantric sex;

Paddles and Floggers

Tantric sex is sensual, and the objective is to keep the senses alert. Consider engaging in impact play for the sensations. Impact play toys include floggers and paddles, and they come at various sizes, materials, styles, and prices. Impact play is important because it engages the largest organ, the skin, and hence the most prominent sense, the sense of touch.

Tickler Toy

You need a tickler if you want an item that will please the senses without causing any pain. The tickler toy is more fun when used while blindfolded and restrained. The tickler is run on the erogenous zones to excite you. You do not know where your partner will run the tickler is very exciting.

Wheels

The wheels are toys that resemble a tracing wheel. you can have your partner blindfolded so that they may feel the sensations as you move the wheel all over their body for the experience with the wheel to be more sensational. You can use it to place as much pleasure as possible but with caution to avoid leaving marks on your partnerโ€™s skin because the spikes are sharp.

Blindfolds

People can engage the sense of sight too. Blindfolds can get you aroused because you are anxious and do not know what to anticipate. You are vulnerable when you are blindfolded, and all your other senses stay alert. The blindfolds may be used when you want your partner to guess some tastes or smells and scents too. You should add a blindfold to your list of sex toys.

Nipple Clamps

People need to arouse the nipples because they are an erogenous zone. Erogenous spots are the areas of your body with extra- sensitivity when touched or stimulated, as Silvestro (2022) suggested. The nipple clamps come in handy for this task. The nipple clamps are meant to cause some pleasurable pain. The sensations in your nipples can cause some wonders in your genital areas because the erogenous zones tend to interconnect. You will use the nipple clamps to pinch, pull, nibble, bite and apply some pressure on the nipples but be gentle so that you do not make the nipples sore and with wounds.

Nipple Suckers

You may consider using nipple suckers if you do not like nipple clamps. The nipple suckers perform the same role as the nipple clamps in that they stimulate the nipples and subsequently arouse the genitals. Some women have been able to achieve orgasms through nipple stimulation only. The nipple suckers bring blood to the nipple and increase arousal. Nipple suckers emit a sensation like little mouths on the nipples and increase the blood flow to the nipples.

Massage Candles

People need to evoke the sense of smell, too, with a scented candle. Some candles are made of scented wax and emit that nice scent as they glow. Some scented candles whose wax can be used as a massage oil when they melt. They do not burn, but they feel hot.

Bath Salts

Bath salts can heighten the senses. They emit nice scents and are great for the skin so that when you bathe with them, you feel fresh and sexy.

Arousal Creams

Arousal creams may not be sex toys, but they are useful during Tantric sex. The creams are applied on the erogenous zones like the nipples, penis, and the clit to intensify the arousals. You are usually advised not to use it in the anus or vagina because it is oily, and if you intend to use latex, it is important to know that oil destroys latex.

Audios

Time to arouse the hearing senses, we will need audio with an erotic story or a song to keep us in the present and the mood. People may have an app for that. Audios are not sex toys, but we need them to involve our sense of hearing too.

Oral Gags

Oral gags are perfect if you want your partner to stay submissive and deny them a chance to talk. You may also have them tease your partner with enticing things they can smell but cannot eat. For instance, teasing them with chocolate may want to eat it but cannot because they are gagged.

Wand Vibrator

According to Lieberman (2016), the wand vibrators were originally meant for massaging your body, but they are now more popularly used as clitoral vibrators. It is rumored that women who have never had an orgasm can have multiple orgasms with a wand massage. While it is commonly used as a clitoral vibrator nowadays, nothing should stop you from using a wand massage for body massage.

Conclusion

Tantric sex is the main objective of Tantric sex is sensualism, as Lorius (1999) stated. Tantric sex should awaken all senses. The Tantra may have religious hints, but that does not mean that you cannot be inspired by the attitude of Tantra toward sex. Tantric sex is the ultimate lovemaking. It is possible to have spiritual sex and not be spiritual. You can include your sex toys and even indulge your kink side in sex. Tantric sex is intimate and allows the partners to connect emotionally while seeking transcendence through sex.

References

Biernacki, L. (2006). Sex Talk And Gender Rites: Women And The Tantric Sex Rite.ย International Journal Of Hindu Studies, 185-206.

Lieberman, H. (2016). Selling Sex Toys: Marketing And The Meaning Of Vibrators In Early Twentieth-Century America. Enterprise & Society, 17(2), 393-433.

Lorius, C. (1999).ย Tantric Sex: Making Love Last. Thorsons.

Silvestro, S., & Richa, C. Erogenous Zones For Women And Men.

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