IS YOUR MAN BEING EXTRA NICE TO YOU AT RANDOM? HERE IS WHY

You may want to know why your man is nice to you. Many reasons may make your man display this behavior. Reasons may include; he wants to make you a part of his life, he has realized his faults, or maybe he wants to propose to you.

According to Takeuchi et al. (2011), at the onset of a relationship, you are in love and constant excitement, and as a result, your body produces a lot of dopamine. As the relationship sails deeper, you may feel like you know your partner and his mannerisms. However, sometimes, your partner may exhibit different behaviors that you are unaccustomed to, making you feel like they do not love you like before. It is important to note that men, unlike women, have a different code of behavior that they may display from time to time without realizing it. Below are reasons why your man is being nice to you at random.

Reasons Why Your Man Is Being Too Nice

He Realized He Hadn't Been Helpful

According to Chabokinejad et al. (2016), it is guaranteed your man knows much about you, especially when in a long-term relationship. He will try to avoid putting you off the balance if he loves you. Whenever your stress levels shoot when you miss your morning coffee, he may try to wake up early and prepare it for you. Your man may load the machine and hang the clothes after if laundry aggravates. Your man may also stop nagging whenever you do not prepare his meal because he realizes you also have bad and good days.

He Wants To Know You More

Things may get boring if you and your man talk about dropping off the kids at school and the monthly budget and never about the relationship. Do not freak out if he starts asking about your day out of the blues, planning date nights, vacations, and preparing dinner. It may be because he realizes he has been taking you for granted and wants to correct that by showing renewed interest in you and the relationship. The little things matter because they lead to a healthy relationship.

He Wants To Spice Things in the Bedroom

Women, unlike men, are outspoken about things that trouble them. A man may feel timid, hindering him from tabling his thoughts. He may start being too nice as bait to get the hint. He may start asking how the sex has been and if you feel the need to change or improve. He may bring a new sex toy home and ask to try it during your next session. The toys may include a vibrator for masturbating to increase your sexual pleasures.

He Agrees To All Your Suggestions

Some women may take this as a sign of disinterest in a relationship, but it shows their love by cooperating. This trait may feel odd for some, but it is not as bad as you think. Your man may feel he does not spend enough time with you, and he may cancel some activities like hanging out with the boys to cuddle with you on the couch.

He Wants To See You

According to Hull (2004), men want to spend time with a woman who keeps their serotonin levels up and running. Therefore, being nice is normal because he wants to be in your good books. Your man may look for ways to be with you if you are dating. He may plead to forego your activities to dine with you. He may cancel important events in a bid to be with you, something you should not take for granted.

He Wants To Make You a Part of His Life

A man will subconsciously make an effort to make you a part of his life if he is serious about the relationship. It does not mean that he will factor you in all his endeavors but in most. He will gain these if he is kind and gentle in his actions. Also, it does not mean you should reciprocate his actions, but it would be healthier if you did.

He Realized That Without You, He Has Nothing

According to Gray & Gray (1993), some men distance themselves as the relationship gets comfortable. This behavior may take a toll on you, but it does not mean your man is weary of you and wants out of the relationship. Your man may be sure about you and does not want another taking his spot in your life if he becomes too friendly. Your man may ask about your friends and want to know them. Reaching out to parents may be difficult, but your man will ensure he meets with them.

He Wants to Commit To You

It is easy for women to notice subtle changes in their men's behavior, and if a man wants to pop the "will you be my girlfriend" question, he may display some habits that you may feel are too nice. Therefore, it is up to you to decipher why he acts the way he does. Whenever you feel your man may be on the verge of asking you to spend a lifetime with him, cut him slack and be gentle, he will appreciate that.

He Wants To Be Acquitted With Your Family

The way to a woman's heart is through the family, especially through the mother. Your partner may need to know intimate details of your family to learn a thing or two from them, things that he does not know.

The Bottom Line

Navigating a relationship is hard, especially if you are not prepared. Your significant other may display behaviors you are not accustomed to although you have been together. Such behaviors may include being too nice, and there is always a reason for each behavior they display. A man may be nice to you because he wants to commit, plan a party, see you, and know that the "bad-boy" act will not get him anywhere. Ensure you learn your man's motives before venturing into his life.

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