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POST-ORGASM TORTURE, THE GETAWAY TO MORE SEXUAL BLISS

POST-ORGASM TORTURE, THE GETAWAY TO MORE SEXUAL BLISS

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova
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POST-ORGASM TORTURE, THE GETAWAY TO MORE SEXUAL BLISS

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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✨ Key Points to Ponder ✨

  • 🔍 Discover the tantalising art of post-orgasmic bliss!
  • 🌶️ Spice up your routine and explore new sensations!
  • 💞 Communication is the key to unlocking your desires!
  • 🌈 Embrace experimentation—variety is the spice of life!
🧠 Key Advice and Tips from Our Experts 🧠🗣️ Always chat with your partner about likes and dislikes—it's a game changer!
🛋️ Try different locations—who knew the sofa could be so versatile?
💡 Keep the atmosphere enchanting with soft lights and music to set the mood.
🤣 Remember, laughter enhances intimacy—don’t take it all too seriously!

    What are orgasms, and what is their role in any sexual experience? How many types of orgasms are there, and how do you know you are orgasming? There is a lot of science behind orgasms that most people do not know of, and below, we answer the frequently asked questions on orgasms.

    Sex, like puppy videos, is something that most folks can't have enough of because sexual activity is very much the essence of human nature. Whether engaging in it, understanding it, or thinking about it, orgasms are described as the height of any sexual experience caused by a snowball of tension in the nerve cells. Orgasms occur when the nerve cells cannot hold in tension anymore and end up "exploding." The orgasm topic is marred by many baseless myths and misconceptions that need to be unpacked so that people get the real definition of this sexual experience.

    Defining Orgasms and Post-Orgasms

    Some people who have experienced orgasms describe the feeling as surreal depending on which body part is receiving stimulation. Gallup et al. (2018) discovered that the intensity, quality, and length of an orgasm can vary. For example, clitoral orgasms and nipple orgasms are different in quality and intensity because the clitoris is filled with tons of nerve endings that, when stimulated, bring about exquisite orgasms. Post orgasm is described as the painful and uncomfortable genital stimulation following an orgasm. Some people's genitals may feel extremely sensitive after orgasm and may not love the idea of continued stimulation after reaching the O-world.

    Post-Orgasm Torture

    Levine (2013) stated that post-orgasm torture is the continued stimulation of the genitals after orgasm. Some people find this extremely painful and uncomfortable, while some people relish the sensation it brings. When two partners often want to engage in post-orgasm torture, they incorporate bondage to ensure that the receiver stays in place until the end of the session. It is vital to note that both individuals must consent to the bondage because it gives the giver (dominant) ultimate control over the receiver (submissive). Everyone, regardless of gender, can experience post-orgasm torture. However, post-orgasm is mostly practiced by femdom lovers, short for female domination. Female domination is essentially a woman who leads her partner in BDSM activities. Post-orgasm torture is also a form of power-play where the female has sexual control over her partner.

    How To Have The Perfect Post-Orgasm Torture Session

    Communicate

    Your sexual gratification and intimacy improve if you communicate with your spouse. Establishing and maintaining clear communication with your spouse can be difficult, especially if you are uncomfortable with sex and what you desire. Consider what you can say while being comfortable and protected. Your partner isn't a mind reader, no matter how well you think you know each other. It's critical to discuss it. If there's something, you'd like to alter about your sex life. While your partner is truly committed to you, they will listen to and respect your desires; a fantastic bonding moment for you and your spouse.

    Let Your Partner Know What Isn't Working

    When you try something in the bedroom, and it doesn't work,  instead of blaming the other person, utilize "I" phrases to communicate what you find unsatisfactory about the situation. You can improve things if you are more open about the aspects you don't like. It can only improve sex. Tell your partner, for example, "I think the sex is a little too rushed. What can we do about it?" This sentence expresses the issue you're having with sex but doesn't assign blame to anyone. Instead, it demonstrates that it is something on which you can collaborate.

    Pay Attention To Your Partner

    Consider their satisfaction to be your goal line. Getting what you want from a sexual relationship is also vital, but you should begin by setting an example. The more positive you make your partner feel, the more eager they will be to take on the challenge. Making sure you absorb and appreciate your partner's responses to the event is crucial to having excellent sex. Brauer et al. (2016) advised that you should stop when you notice your spouse fidgeting because you may be hurting them. Repeat your action when you hear your lover groan since it probably feels great.

    Indulge Your Fantasies

    You don't have to go overboard with activities you prefer during sex. However, some basic kinks may help spice up your sex life. The issue is that sex may quickly become regular, particularly when you've been with the same person for a long time. You may need to break the monotony to keep it wonderful or improve it. You can buy silk blindfolds, soft handcuffs, and a hilarious game of Bad Cop to say goodbye to bedroom boredom. Fahs & Swank (2013) suggested that you could also incorporate sex toys like dildos and vibrators to boost satisfaction.

    Reveal What You Like

    Make a point of inquiring about your partner's desires and preferences. Being shy or coy will make your partner uncomfortable, making the situation worse for both of you. Allow yourself to enjoy the experience, and allow your partner to see that you are. Don't pass judgment on your partner based on their preferences. Listen to them without interrupting. It might be scary for both of you to reveal what you desire, but there is no harm. Tell them you're not interested without making them feel awkward or awful about their preferences if your partner likes something you don't like.

    The Bottom Line

    Staying in the moment is essential for having more passionate sex and enjoying sex more. It would help to concentrate on how you feel rather than what you think to avoid disappointment. For a more passionate session, some people advocate medications or alcohol, which may be prohibited in some areas. As long as you and your spouse enjoy the sex, intense or not, it is a good way to spend quality time with your partner. You can consider having fun while having sexual intercourse by communicating with your partner to learn their levels of pain and enjoyment. Pay attention to their reaction when thrusting to improve on your skills. You can fantasize about the best sexual activities you've watched to help attain maximum stimulation. Sex is enjoyable; no partner should experience pain and discomfort during lovemaking. By following the tips above, you can shake things up and keep them interesting in your next sex session.

    References

    Brauer, M., Van Lunsen, R. H., Laan, E. T., & Burger, M. P. (2016). A Qualitative Study On Experiences After Vulvar Surgery In Women With Lichen Sclerosis And Sexual Pain. The Journal Of Sexual Medicine, 13(7), 1080-1090.

    Fahs, B., & Swank, E. (2013). Adventures With The "Plastic Man": Sex Toys, Compulsory Heterosexuality, And The Politics Of Women's Sexual Pleasure. Sexuality & Culture, 17(4), 666-685.

    Gallup Jr, G. G., Towne, J. P., & Stolz, J. A. (2018). An Evolutionary Perspective On Orgasm. Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, 12(1), 52.

    Levine, S. B. (2013). Sexual Life: A Clinician's Guide. Springer Science & Business Media.


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