PUSSY EATING 101: HOW TO GIVE GOOD ORAL SEX TO SOMEONE WITH A VULVA

Pussy eating entails using the mouth to stimulate the vagina. Below is detailed information on how to give good oral sex to someone with a vulva including the use of sex toys.

Kumar et al. (2015) defined oral sex as the act of giving or receiving oral stimulations in the genitals. According to Rehor (2015), oral sex consists of fellatio, cunnilingus, and analingus. Curtis (2007) described fellatio as the stimulation of the penis. Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the vagina, and anilingus is the stimulation of the anus. Oral sex is usually part of foreplay. It is not a must that a couple has sexual intercourse after oral sex as oral sex can sometimes give the partners enough satisfaction and even orgasms. Oral sex does not involve heterosexual couples only. It may involve same-sex partners too. Read this article to understand how to give good oral sex. 

French-Kiss the Pussy

Since the female genitalia resembles the mouth, you can French-kiss it as if it were a mouth.

Have Some Sound Effects

You cannot be giving some oral, and you are mum about it. When you make sounds, the recipient subconsciously makes sounds too. Moreover, the recipient would not make sounds if they were not enjoying the experience. Moan and groan to get your partner into the mood. No one wants a partner that goes mute during oral play. Interesting oral sex is backed with some sounds.

Let the Fingers Do the Walking

It may be oral sex, but that does not mean that the fingers are banned from the party. The woman is having a good time with the tongue-work. She is probably getting aroused, and she naturally wants more penetration. Insert your fingers, then go back to licking and eating the pussy.

Don't Forget to Please the Clitoris

The clitoris is one of the erogenous zones of the woman's body, and if you do not cater for it, you may as well accept that you are a failure at oral sex. Lick and play with the clitoris like a small dick waiting for a blow-job. Suck it good but not too much because, at some point, it stops being pleasurable and turns into something that you need to stop doing. The last thing you want to do is put off your partner. 

The Sex Toys are Welcome Too

Some clitoris vibrators can come in handy during oral sex too. It does not mean that you are ineffective, but if the toys are welcome in bed, why not involve them in helping the vulva owner? You can hold a clitoral vibrator on the clitoris while eating the pussy to give your partner double sensations. You can also insert a dildo in the pussy as you lick the clitoris.

Include Lube

You can include lube in the game, too, for more fun. Lube is not only used by women who experience dryness or pain during sex or are post-menopause. It is meant for everyone that wants to have fun. Also, if you want to use sex toys, you have to lube up for the most fun. Using a clitoral vibrator without lubricating it will result in the pulling and tugging of the clitoris by the sex toy. Lubrication is very important as explained by Angel (2022). Also, Wilson et al. (2017) explained that lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals. 

Explore her Body

When you are down there, please her most erogenous spot. Your fingers should be exploring her body to search for more erogenous spots. The nipple is part of the erogenous spot. If you can reach her breasts, touch them. Play with her nipples lightly. The erogenous spots will interconnect, and your partner will feel so much pleasure that she wouldn’t want you to stop pleasing her.

Allow Her to Touch You

Oral sex is sensual. During oral sex, all the senses come into play. It would help if you allowed the woman to touch you so that you could both share the excitement. Let her hold your head or shoulders. Sharing the excitement is a sure way towards at least achieving pleasurable sex, if not an orgasm. 

Use Your Whole Body

Once in a while, pause the oral sex and get on top of her. Rub your body on hers as if you are having sex, and as you move, the focus should be on the genitals. You can French kiss to make it more sensual. Get back to the pussy and continue pleasuring her.

Change Positions

Like sex, you need not stay in one position only. Gone are the days when having sex meant missionary sex. You may have oral sex while standing or sitting. Changing positions is important because it signifies that you are involved in it. Besides, some positions guarantee more pleasure than others.

Change the Venue 

Break the monotony and boredom of having oral sex in the bedroom only. Try having a different venue. Move into the shower or the living room. Be a bit daring and have oral sex outdoor, on the balcony, or even in the kitchen. You may also break the rules and have oral sex where you are not supposed to.

Add Some Flavor

Since you are eating pussy you may want to feel the taste. Go ahead and add some flavor in the form of real food or lube. The downside of using real food is getting an infection, e.g., a yeast infection. Moreover, food can change the pH balance of the pussy, and that will cause bacteria to multiply. When the number of bacteria increases, you will get bacterial and yeast infections, and if left untreated, you will have UTI (Urinary Tract Infection). Flavored lube may be safer unless you have an allergy to the lube ingredients. 

Conclusion

Oral sex does not always appeal to everyone. Some people do not like it and tend to avoid it. If you want to have oral sex and your partner is not interested, you may resent them. It would help if you did not judge them for not wanting to be involved in it. You may include flavors and food to entice them into having oral sex with you. On the other hand, oral sex may not be sexual intercourse, but it may include some risks because it involves the exchange of fluids. You may minimize the risk of contracting STDs by having dental dams or wearing condoms.

References

Angel, K. (2022). Tomorrow sex will be good again: Women and desire in the age of consent. Verso Books.

Curtis, B. (2007). Oral Sex. The Blackwell Encyclopedia of Sociology.

Kumar, T., Puri, G., Aravinda, K., Arora, N., Patil, D., & Gupta, R. (2015). Oral sex and oral Health: An enigma in itself. Indian journal of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS, 36(2), 129.

Rehor, J. E. (2015). Sensual, erotic, and sexual behaviors of women from the “kink” community. Archives of sexual behavior, 44(4), 825-836.Wilson, S. L., Adam, J. K., & Krishna, S. B. N. (2017). Effects of vaginal lubricants on in-vitro progressive spermatozoa motility. African Journal of Reproductive Health, 21(3), 96-101.