DOWN STROKE SEX POSITION

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Are you looking for the most satisfying sexual experience? Satisfactory sex does not always come on a silver platter and sometimes requires both partners to go the extra mile. That is what the down-stroke sex position brings to the table. That is not to say that it is the most acrobatic sex position, but it requires more input than the missionary or doggy styles.

The down stroke sex position is similar to the pile driver or deep impact in numerous ways. However, it is not as extreme and acrobatic as the pile driver. It is also more popular because the man offers you the more elusive G-Spot penetration as long as he figures his angles and entry points right. Also, while it is not a sex position for everyone, any couple with an average range of flexibility can have a go at it and enjoy intense sensational stimulations. That said, herein is all you need to know about the downstroke sex position.

How To Perform the Down Stroke Sex Position

Are you looking to spice up your sex life? Wilkins (2008) explained that exploring different sex positions in different places with your partner adds some much-needed intimacy boost using the down stroke sex position. This erotic sex position can be performed in various places, but the edge of a sturdy sofa or steady bed are ideal options. The down stroke position is one of the best sex positions you can use to achieve deep penetration and hit your woman's elusive G-spot.

As experts point out, most couples don't intuitively think about the down stroke because of the amount of effort and flexibility needed and the difficulty the man can have in getting the right angles and entry points. However, figuring everything right is worth it for everyone involved. So, how do you get started with the down-stroke sex position? Here is how you can have sex in this position.

• Moradi et al. (2014) stated that to perform the down stroke; the woman needs to start by laying on her back (preferably on the edge of a bed, sofa, or a sturdy chair) with her legs raised and pointed towards the ceiling (as is the case with deep impact sex position).
• While standing and facing you, the man should grab your legs and pull you upwards and towards himself. In this position, he can penetrate your vagina while standing almost straight.
• To better pull you, the man can grab your waist and lift it off the sofa or bed to the point where you support yourself by your shoulders and upper back.
• This way, your man can easily penetrate you and figure out an excellent entry point and the best angle for G-Spot stimulation.

Her Role and Why She Will Love It

There isn’t much a lady can do while the man is holding and penetrating her in the down-stroke position. Johansen (2007) explained that her free hands could wander over her clitoris and help her masturbate for a more indulging experience. A lady can maintain clear eye contact with her man for a more intimate experience. The lady can also put more pillows on for shoulder rest and enjoy comfort. This position is one of the most recommended for G-Spot stimulation. Hence, a woman can experience the most explosive orgasm if a man gets everything right.

His Role and Why He Will Love It

Rhoads (2005) explained that the key thing for the man to do to achieve satisfactory sex in the down stroke position is to hold the lady in the right position. Getting the angle and vaginal entry point right is paramount to G-Spot stimulation. In this position, the man wraps his hands around her things and pulls her upwards and towards himself.

Once he finds the right hold, he can penetrate and focus on thrusting. The right thrusts in the down stroke sex position are intended to stimulate the upper walls of the vagina – where the G-Spot is located. The man enjoys more control over penetration because the lady has virtually nothing to do while being held in this position.

What Should You Consider When Performing the Down Stroke Sex Position?

If you get down to the down-stroke sex position and want to make it fun and exciting for both involved, make the following adjustments.

• Until your man has figured out the right angles and entry point to your vagina, don’t allow him to thrust too hard.
• With this position comes the possibility of performing anal sex. Feel free to have anal sex and also finger yourself to double orgasms.
• Comfort is key in the down stroke sex position because the man utilizes extra strength while the woman rests on her shoulders and upper back. Therefore, let the man experiment with how high he can hold you before he can thrust hard.
• The downstroke sex position may not be your first choice if you fancy deep penetrations.
• Consider using cushions or more pillows for more comfort.
• If you fancy sex toys, a magic wand or an anal plug can be a good idea as you can use your free hands to stimulate your clitoris and enjoy anal pleasures.
• If you fancy a more indulging and intimate sexual experience, the downstroke may not offer that. However, you will be in luck because of the G-Spot stimulation.

Conclusions

The down stroke sex position may not be for everyone because of how acrobatic it can be. However, those who are flexible enough can enjoy a satisfactory sexual experience. As mentioned earlier, the down stroke position may not be as intimate as the missionary or flatiron styles. Better still, the man has more control over thrusting and penetration and can feel more dominant while staring down her girl. Overall, this sex position is excellent if the lady fancies G-spot orgasms.

References

Johansen, R. E. B. (2007). Experiencing sex in exile–can genitals change their gender? On conceptions and experiences related to female genital cutting among Somalis in Norway. I: Hernlund, Ylva K. & Bettina K. Shell-Duncan (eds)(2007) Transcultural bodies: Female genital cutting in the global context, Rutgers University Press.

Moradi, M., Parker, M., Sneddon, A., Lopez, V., & Ellwood, D. (2014). Impact of endometriosis on women’s lives: a qualitative study. BMC women's health, 14(1), 1-12.

Rhoads, S. E. (2005). Taking sex differences seriously. Encounter Books.

Wilkins, A. C. (2008). Wannabes, goths, and Christians: The boundaries of sex, style, and status. University of Chicago Press.