BOY TOYS: DISMANTLING THE STIGMA SURROUNDING MASTURBATION CUPS
Masturbation is sexually stimulating a person’s genitals for pleasure or other sexual gratification, to reach climax( orgasm). Herein is about dismantling the stigma of masturbation cups, including; why it is an issue when boys use it, cups, sleeves, and eggs, and it has risks.
A person may use hands, fingers, commonplace items, sex toys like vibrators, or a mix to stimulate their erogenous zones. Mutual masturbation involves masturbation with a partner that can entail tactile stimulation of a partner's sexual organs or be utilized as non-penetrative sex. Masturbation can occur at any age and in both sexes. Masturbation has been linked to several psychological and physiological advantages. Masturbation and any physical or mental condition do not have a direct link.
What's the big deal about people using sex toys, particularly male masturbators, cups, and sleeves? It all depends on whom you ask. The hush around female masturbation has undoubtedly harmed their perceptions of female satisfaction, but owing to a self-pleasure shift (which were delighted to be a part of), many people regard female self-pleasure as unimportant, if not fantastic. While attitudes about male self-satisfaction as a part of life have long existed, there has also been a widespread belief that it is something to joke about– or, much worse, that it is sad.
Why Does It Become An Elephant In The Building When The Boys Do It?
'Everyone Masturbates' would be the title of the first adult photo release if they were to get into it. The majority of people do. How often they go about pursuing their solo sex-related contentment–varies a great deal. People can speak from personal experience when it comes to the appeal of prostate massagers. When talking about a specific type of male sex toy– referred to as anything from 'pocket pussies' to a truck driver's best friend– there is an odd frequency of the concept that if your hand functions are impaired, buying this kind of product means that the customer 'also spent in their masturbation. A person can use the same rationale for anything– for example, someone who changes their hair is 'too engaged' in their appearance when their natural color is perfect. You don't need any more rationale; it feels good–some individuals are willing to put in a little extra time and labor to feel better, while others are not.
Cups, Sleeves, and Eggs
Making judgments about how individuals masturbate and whether or not they use playthings has no place in your room. Consider using the numerous types of toys accessible in the sex industry. The phrase 'male masturbator' is often used as a catch-all word for various sex playthings designed for the user to insert their penis inside while masturbating. They use a variety of textures and stresses to mimic your preferred orifice, and voilà! However, that particular type of masturbation cup that you may be used to seeing, with a stiff outer case and a squishy, removable inner, has certain undeniable drawbacks. According to McLean (2011), many cups and sleeves are large and expensive and may not favor beginners. You could consider checking out masturbating eggs, which are small squishy 'eggs' designed for solo use if you're not sure if you'd like a comparable experience of masturbation plaything. Almeling (2007) noted that the masturbating eggs are easy to clean but should not be used for an extended period.
Here are some things about masturbation that you probably did not know
Masturbation Is Beneficial To Your Sexual Life
Kaestle & Allen (2011) stated that masturbation helps males discover what they want during sex. Masturbation can help boost your sex life. Women would be more sexually fulfilled if they masturbate as much as males do. There are no exceptions to this rule when talking about masturbation in both genders. According to Dominguez et al. (2007), some men become addicted to a particular degree of intensity during masturbation or pornographic stimulation to the point that they cannot perform with a partner. Those men are the exception. Masturbation is a healthful activity for the great majority of males. People are more troubled about a person who has ceased masturbating, which might be a symptom of health or anxiety issues, than a guy who does it regularly.
Masturbating Has No Bearing On The State Of Your Relationship
The most dangerous fallacy regarding male masturbation has been that it indicates a problem in your relationship. The truth is that almost all men masturbate. They masturbate whether single, in a poor, or in a good relationship. It is something they do apart from their relationships. Masturbation is more than about sex. It's a common approach for many people to relieve tension and clear their heads before work or sleep.
There Is No Such Thing As "Normal" Masturbation
Guys often get caught up in whether or not they are masturbating excessively. How frequently you masturbate daily or weekly isn't what matters. It's all about how it aligns with your schedule. Good for you if you masturbate several times daily and have a healthy, fulfilling life. Consider seeking help from a sex therapist if you masturbate frequently and are missing work or cutting off sex with your spouse. There's nothing in particular about masturbation that is the issue. Compulsive masturbation is similar to any other practice that causes you to lose control of your life, such as obsessively gambling or visiting your social networks every minute.
Masturbation Is Not Without Risk
Masturbation is a low-risk situation. It's the safest way to have sex. No one has ever contracted an STD or been pregnant by masturbating themselves. However, it carries certain dangers, like other low-risk hobbies (chewing, walking). Minor skin irritation can be caused by frequent or harsh masturbation. Forcefully twisting an erect penile can burst the blood-filled chambers, resulting in penile fracture, a rare but terrible disorder. Some guys get it after much masturbation. The penis resembles an eggplant. It's bloated and purple. The majority of guys require surgery to correct it.
References
Almeling, R. (2009). Gender And The Value Of Bodily Goods: Commodification In Egg And Sperm Donation. Law & Contemp. Probs., 72, 37.
Dominguez, A. W., Ferrell, D., & Kwee, W. A. (2007). Sexual Addiction And Christian College Men: Conceptual, Assessment, And Treatment Challenges. J Psychol Christ, 26, 3-13.
Kaestle, C. E., & Allen, K. R. (2011). The Role Of Masturbation In Healthy Sexual Development: Perceptions Of Young Adults. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 40(5), 983-994.
Mclean, C. (2011). Chevrolet Upper Control Arm Re-Design.