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13 Clear Signs He Wants A Relationship With You

13 Clear Signs He Wants A Relationship With You

13 Clear Signs He Wants A Relationship With You

Today's dating techniques can be confusing and hard for males and females. We often meet people in our lives thinking we have something solid only to find out there is nothing at all. However, it is vital to learn signs that determine if someone wants a relationship with you to avoid heartbreaks. If you want to differentiate between a jerk and a prince charming, look for undeniable signs that he wants a serious relationship with you.

It may be heartbreaking to meet someone, flirt, sleep together, hang out, and develop feelings for someone, only for them to leave you. As disappointing as it may be, it is hard to know if he wants to be with you because some will only stick around you for convenience. To avoid such heartbreak, here are 13 clear signs he wants to be in a long-term relationship.

When He Uses “Date”

In the 21st century, dating is confusing, especially when it's casual. It is all about hanging out and sleeping together, which is the culture of hooking up. However, few people go on actual dates while dressed nicely. When your man asks you for a particular date and talks about dating you, that is a sign that he is serious about you. Therefore, be more attentive to this sign. Chances are he needs you in his life.

He is Dependable

When a guy is unsure about what he wants, he will not be consistent. He will only show up when lonely, bored, or gets some time. He doesn't appear when you need him, and he will never create time for you. When you see these signs, know that you are an option and not his priority.

On the contrary, if your man needs much time with you, he will do anything to see you and be there emotionally. This is a sign of a healthy relationship. Another clear sign a man is serious about you is him including you in his plans, including those that don't concern you.

Calling You for No Reason

If he wants a relationship with you, he will reach out to you for no reason. It may not necessarily be a call because not everyone likes phone calls. You will know that he is not after sex when he calls you to say hi, hear your voice, and ask how your day was. Sometimes he might call to let you know how his day was. If you feel the same, this is a clear sign that your relationship is serious.

He Stops Seeing Other Girls

At the beginning of the relationship, he will probably be entertaining other ladies. However, he should stop talking, sleeping, and seeing other women if he wants a future with you. If this is the case, it may signify that he wants to be monogamous. 

He Takes It Slow

Taking it slow shouldn't make you confused. Instead, he probably doesn't want to rush things but wants to make it work out for both of you. He may take his time before kissing and making love with you, which is not an indicator that he doesn't want you.

He Tells You About His Feeling

If he wants you, he will make it known to you and not only when drunk. He will honestly let you know what he feels and that he wants a relationship with you. He won't play mind games with you, making you have mixed reactions, wondering if he needs you.

He is Jealous

If he feels jealous when you spend more time with your male friends, this can be a clear sign that he is serious about you. He may not check your phone but is curious about your friends. Remember, if it is irrational jealousy, that is unhealthy.

Being Protective

If your man cares, he will protect you. He will show concern when you walk home at night and be suspicious about men. He will show genuine concern and not be controlling, making you flattered.

He Introduces You to His Family and Family

Introducing you to his family and friends is the best sign that he wants something solid. By so doing, he is showing you that you are essential, and he needs you in his life.

He is Passionate About Knowing the Real You

The questions he asks about you are the best sign, so pay attention. He should not talk about sex only but your dreams, best friends, hopes, and your childhood.

Attentive to Details

If he doesn't want to be in a relationship, you will always force him to be caring. Ho ever, if he is into having a strong, solid relationship, he will pay more attention to every detail, including how you take your coffee and how often you talk to your mom. This trait can make him the best giver.

When He Talks About the Relationship

If he wants a relationship with you, he will talk to you about his relationship expectations. However, he might not use the word "relationship" because he may be afraid of scaring you away. Therefore, learn the signs and be keen on his actions.

He Talks of the Future

When he wants a relationship with you, he will use "us" and plans for the future, adding you to his plans, like having a spring vacation for the two of you.

The Bottom Line

Nowadays, relationships are pretty challenging and complicated. Some men will only want to use women sexually and not involve them in something solid. There are many clear signs to show if a man is serious about you. If a man wants you, he will make it happen. Therefore, pay attention to his actions and conversations to ensure he is not using you sexually. If you see any sign of being used, you need to end the relationship as this will do you better in the long term.