MASTURGREATING: LEVELING UP YOUR MASTURBATION

Masturbation is the act of sexually pleasuring oneself. Although most people don’t approve of it, masturbation is a common activity. People masturbate for different reasons. Some say that it helps them relax and feel good, while others masturbate to release sexual tension and understand their bodies better. 

While masturbation is currently a common practice, it was considered taboo in most cultures and was viewed as a sign of dissatisfaction amongst couples. However, there is no shame in masturbating, and most people recognize this act as a form of sexual self-care. Using the same technique repeatedly can make masturbation boring and less satisfying. If you love this act, revolutionize it using the following tips.

Tips to Spice Up Your Masturbation

When it comes to masturbation, sticking to the same technique can eliminate the fun of the session. Below are tips you can use to make solo play more pleasurable and fun.

Set the Mood

The setting and mood can determine whether you enjoy your masturbation session. You can choose to draw the curtains, dim the lights, light some candles, and listen to relaxing music. You can also include some flowers in your room and spray your favorite scent. Taking a long, warm bath can also bring you to the right mood for solo play.

Try New Positions

While there are many positions to try out in partnered sex, masturbation can be limiting. Most people masturbate in the same position every time. However, it is essential to switch positions to enjoy new sensations. You can try propping the legs up, lying on the belly, and using pillows to anchor your body. You can also try masturbating while standing up. Some of the best positions for masturbation include squatting, lying on the back, and face-down doggy style. Also, you can switch up the locations and take your solo play to the bathroom or kitchen. Trying different positions brings new energy to your solo play and makes it more pleasurable.

Use Sex Toys

Enlarging your sex toys collection can keep your solo play fresh and fun. When masturbating, interchange the hands and the toys to experience different sensations. Toys come in different types, designs, colors, and functionality. Try using simple toys like dildos, vibrators, and magic wands if you are a beginner. You can also go for sex dolls or realistic sex toys for a more real-life experience. For advanced users, rigid sex toys are ideal to offer intense stimulation. Other sex toys, especially those with suction cups, are best for masturbation because they offer a hands-free experience. Choose a sex toy that suits your needs to spice up your solo play. 

Practice Edging

Sex experts recommend edging for more explosive orgasms. Anyone can benefit from edging. This is the practice of stopping oneself from orgasm when a person is at their peak. It involves pausing the play when about to cum. The goal is to try to hold orgasms for as long as possible. Edging results in mind-blowing orgasms. It can also help people, especially men, last longer during sex.

Stimulate Other Sensitive Zones

Most people concentrate on the clitoris, for women, and the penis for men, during solo play. However, if you want to take your masturbation to the next level, concentrate on other erogenous spots. You can stimulate the nipples, perineum, and outer and inner labia. Men should also focus on their testicles. This brings new sensations and more pleasure. The butt hole has numerous nerve endings that can result in mind-blowing orgasms when stimulated. When stimulating the erogenous spots, use different motions, such as pulling, tickling, tapping. Also, switch between light and heavy pressure, depending on the stimulation you desire.

Use Lube

Most people think that lube is only used during partnered play. However, a lube is essential in masturbation. Applying lube reduces friction that may cause pain. Lube also creates a smooth environment which can increase the sensation. You can also use lotions to massage other areas like the inner thighs and stomach. When using sex toys, choose a lube compatible with the toy’s material. Also, those with sensitive skin should choose body-safe lube to avoid allergic reactions like irritation.

Set Up Mirrors

Watching yourself as you masturbate can intensify the sensations. This is a great way of discovering what turns you on by seeing how your boy responds to different touches. It is also a method of building self-confidence and being confident with your body. However, if you are shy, you can dim the lights and use a small mirror to observe your facial expressions and dim the light. When you gain enough confidence, you can advance to full-length mirrors. You can also record your solo session. The feeling of having the camera recording can be a turn-on to most people. 

Benefits of Masturbation

Sex experts recommend that masturbation has numerous health, physical and mental benefits. It can be safer than partnered sex since it reduces the risks of STIs and other infections. Some of the benefits of masturbation include;

• Promotes better sleep
• Helps in relaxation
• Reduces stress
• Enhances self-esteem and body image
• Promotes the release of endorphins, which causes physical and mental well-being
• Helps to identify what is most pleasurable to a person
• Releases sexual tension

However, masturbation can also cause side effects, especially when excessively practiced. It can lead to addiction, which often interferes with relationships and can cause reduced sensitivity. Therefore, it is important to practice safe masturbation.

The Bottom Line

Masturbation is a common practice where men and women release sexual tension. Although some people still view it as taboo, it is a safe practice that has numerous benefits, as discussed above. Most people opt for their hands for masturbation and stick to the same practice. For more pleasure,  try various strategies. For instance, you can use different positions, locations, sex toys, and set an enjoyable solo play. You can also be more adventurous and set up mirrors or invite your partner to watch. The key is to try something different to get new sensations.