BDSM Nipple Play Breast Bondage Guide
BDSM Nipple Play Breast Bondage Guide
Nipple play can be an extreme turn on for both men and women. The breasts and nipples are extremely sensitive and can be easily aroused. They respond to temperature and touch. The nipples are made up of a network of smooth muscles closely underlying the surface of the skin and are filled with nerve endings. The nipples are in a high erogenous zone; so it is possible for people to orgasm from having their nipples stimulated .
Touching the erogenous zones causes our bodies to release its natural feel good hormone oxytocin. The oxytocin causes the blood to flow towards our highest erogenous zone and results in an orgasm. The more intense your arousal becomes the more sensitive your nipples become and you can tolerate stronger stimulation as you approach orgasm.
The most sensitive part of the breast is actually the areola [i](the circle around the nipple). Nipple play can either be gentle or it can be extremely painful.
When beginning nipple play it’s a good idea to start off slowly and gently. You want to explore your partner’s nipples, discover what turns them on and build up the intensity. Start of by gently blowing your cool breath on the nipple and gently fondle the nipples with your fingers. You may circle the nipple with the tip of your finger, or you may gently flick your finger over the nipples.
Use your whole hand to explore all of the breast area and watch for your partner’s reactions. Next with the tip of your tongue gently lick the nipples in a circular motion, before gently sucking on the nipple (maybe put some whipped cream on the nipples and lick it off).
Some people may decide to then bite their partner’s nipple, for more intense stimulation. Once you’re feeling very aroused and ready to get more aggressive with your play you can start pulling, squeezing and pinching on the nipples.
Temperature play can be fun with nipple play. Freeze some ice and run an ice cube across the nipple or use a candle to run hot wax over the nipples. There are various different toys available for nipple play.
To increase sensitivity and blood flow there are nipple sucker sets. There are nipple clamps that apply precise pressure that can be increased for pleasurable pain. There are clamps that have weights on them, tweezer nipple clamps, Japanese clover clamps, adjustable clamps, vibrating nipple clamps and clamps with bells (note that beginners should start off with adjustable clamps to get used to the pressure).
There is a breast torture rack that allows you to squash your subs breasts in the device and increase or decrease the pressure applied. Rubber tipped forceps can be used to squeeze the nipples. The dolphin tit tugger and the Stainless steel finger sleeve can be worn to tease and tantalise your partner.
Nipple stimulating gels are also available, for enhanced pleasure. Some enjoy having their nipples pierced and getting their partner to squeeze the piercing during intercourse, while others may enjoy having their breasts whipped.
We all enjoy different experiences and need to explore what is right for us.