12 Ways to Use Nipple Play for Intense Sex

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Nipple play is a fantastic, satisfying activity that you or your partner can do. Spice your sex by practicing this satisfying act. Herein are ways to satisfy nipple plays, including; blowing, practicing kissing, licking it, biting, pulling, and sucking.

Nipple play is a good stimulator and helps one become sexually aroused due to the release of the feel-good hormone oxytocin. The hormone is released when the nipple is stimulated, causing it to become erect. Some women get an orgasm through nipple play. There are ways for a man to exploit the nipple for foreplay. Nipple fucking is one of the ways to arouse your body, including your partner’s breast. The brain gets stimulated the same as the clitoris or vagina when practicing nipple play. Below are tips about nipple play.

Begin with Blowing

You can start it off by blowing. It is the best way to begin stimulating the nipple. Blow the nipple areas gently as it brings a calming sensation to your nipple. You can adjust the temperature of your breath. You may either move closer to the nipple for warm temperatures or blow your breath via pursed lips for a cooling effect.

Practice Kissing

There are several ways to kiss the nipple. Start by rubbing your dry lips across the nipple. You can also open the lips and kiss the nipple. Try playing around with it using your tongue.

Try To Lick It

According to Chia & Arava (2002), you can use your tongue's tip to lick the nipple area in a circular motion. You can do this while laying on your partner or standing. The aim is to make your partner aroused for some mind-blowing sex. Caress the other nipple with the other hand as you try to lick the other nipple. It is advisable to switch nipples every thirty seconds to allow both nipples to feel the same pleasure. Switch to lapping motion once in a while. Avoid sticking to the circular motion because it is boring. Monotony will make your partner take time to be aroused.

Try Biting

Biting depends on your partner’s preference because that can be a turn-off to some. Be careful not to hurt your partner when doing this. A gentle bite that seems like holding on to the nipple with your teeth is enough. You can lick the nipple using the tongue to hold it with your teeth. You can bite the nipple harder to see your partner's reaction and continue if he likes it.

Pulling

Get more aggressive with the nipples and try pulling as you twist them. Do it romantically. Pulling is usually done when the sexual tension is high and almost reaches the climax.

Sucking

Let your lips cover the nipple, and gently suck the nipple as you increase the pace with time. It is nice to alternate between sucking and licking. Ensure you suck as you get touchier to other places to enjoy more.

Squeezing

According to Chia & North (2010), you can squeeze the nipple gently using your thumb and forefinger. Get hold of the nipple and squeeze it so that it can rise slightly. It feels nice to squeeze it as you lick or suck the nipple to spice it.

Pinching

Just after squeezing the nipple, you can try pinching. Use your forefinger and thumb to get hold of the squeeze and apply a little pressure as you keep holding the nipple. You can add a little pressure and hold it for a while to allow your partner to get excited. Your partner will feel a sensation brought about by the blood flowing back to the nipple when you let go. You are free to either release the nipple faster or slowly.

Use Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps work the same way as clothespins. They are a type of sex toy containing added features to increase the sensation of the nipples. Nipple clamps bring about a feeling of pain and pleasure nearly at the same time. Like cloth spines, when worn, they make the nipple numb, and a sensation is felt when the clamps are removed. The pressure is easily adjusted when using nipple clamps. There is a type of clamp that resembles the tweezers and have a metallic ring that makes up and down movements on the arm of the clamps so that they can adjust the grip of the nipple on the clamp. Some advanced nipple clamps are attached with vibrators that vibrate on the nipples while clamped.

Caressing

It is advisable to begin with massaging the area around the nipple. Do not go directly to the nipple. First, apply varying pressure rhythmically in either a circular motion. Tease the nipple without touching it fast. Levin & Meston (2006) suggested that teasing brings great arousal to your partner. Ensure you vary the movements from slow to fast to avoid being boring. Caressing is good since it applies to the whole breast area. Note that the breasts' sensitivity can vary depending on a person's ovulation cycle.

Use a Cloth Spin

It applies to those who like pinching. Let the cloth spine point into the air and grip the nipple, including the areola. The feeling may hurt at first, but it gives immeasurable pleasure when a person gets used to it. People in breast bondage use clothe spin. Using a rubber band, wrap the opposite end of the cloth spine to make it less intense. Begin by relaxing to determine whether you can leave the clothespin for a minute or more.

Use Hot and Cold

Use different temperature things such as ice cubes and rub them on your partner's nipples for a few seconds to feel that extreme cold in their nipples. Frederick et al. (2018) stated that you could use candle wax to apply to your partner's nipples. It will turn on your partner. It is time-consuming, but it's worth doing it. You also get to make long-lasting memories that you can’t imagine having with another person. Nipples' nerve endings are responsive to touch. These nerve endings fill with blood when touched, causing an erection. They can withstand stronger stimulation as the person nears orgasm. People prefer beginning with being warmed up first.

Conclusion

Not only women obtain pleasure from nipple play. It is key to note that the size of the breast is not a factor. Men get aroused and enjoy this experience. Therefore, don't be mean to make your man go gaga with a mind-blowing nipple play that will give him memorable foreplay. You can spice your foreplay through the nipple play technique. People are different; not all people may prefer nipple play. Understand your partner's desires. However, there is no harm in introducing it slowly until your partner gets used to it, as long as they enjoy every bit of it.

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Chia, M., & North, K. D. (2010). Taoist Foreplay: Love Meridians And Pressure Points. 

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Orgasm Frequency Among Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, And Heterosexual Men And Women In A US National Sample. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 47(1), 273-288.

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