HOW TO TURN A GUY ON FAST: 20 BULLETPROOF TECHNIQUES

Are you planning to have sex, maybe a quickie, and would like to turn your guy on faster for the action? Learn how to turn on a guy with these 20 bulletproof techniques, including masturbating in front of him. 

It is easy to turn guys on. However, some men won’t be turned on easily. Therefore, learning to turn him on is crucial for a great start. You might have come across some comments somewhere that men get turned on mostly by what they see. However, it takes more than seeing to turn a guy on. Some guys may have been used to what they see; hence you have to make them feel you and sometimes hear. Below are some techniques that will help you turn on a guy fast.

How to Turn Him on 

Play wrestle 

Fighting for victory with your partner can be a huge trigger that will turn him on. This play involves fighting while touching each other bodies. You will never know where their hand will touch you. It may be on one of your most sensitive partners, and if he notices, he will be turned on. The physical contact between your bodies will activate your desires.

Masturbating in Front of Him

Masturbation is the deliberate self-stimulation for sexual pleasure. According to Leonard (2010), masturbation is harmless and convenient for everybody. Exposing your genitals in front of him while stimulating yourself will make your man's thoughts wild. He will be turned on the next second because of what he sees and hears (from your moans) when that happens. Sometimes he may be turned on due to the smell of the sexual fluids discharged from your genitals. 

Trace the Contours 

It is easy to turn on a guy directly heading for his penis. However, you must not forget about other erogenous zones, such as the chest. Trace his body’s outlines gently with your fingers. You can do that across his arms, chest, hips, legs, and butt. 

Give Him a Hot Kiss 

Kisses can be friendly, innocent, deep, and lingering. Giving your partner a deep kiss for a long time will show him that there is more that you want, and thinking of that will make him aroused. 

Scratch His Back 

Scratching your man’s back brings a gentle sensation that will turn him on. To make the scratching effective, you can use ice or a warm object.

Try New Things 

This has nothing much to do with turning him on, but it will trigger his memories of your previous acts, which will turn him on. You might be out of fantasy and would like to explore what you may have been thinking about for a long time.

Use Aphrodisiac

Singh et al. (2013) stated that aphrodisiacs are named after Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of sex, love, and beauty. There are certain food or supplements that increase sexual drive when consumed. They are referred to as aphrodisiacs. Although science has yet to clarify how much sexual drive will be stimulated with these foods, we all know that the effects are strong. Therefore, you can turn on your man by feeding him some foods that will increase his desire to be with you. Such foods include oysters, figs, coffee, chocolate, and Ginko Biloba. 

Watch Adult Films 

According to Moriguchi et al. (2014), men are visual creatures and will be turned on by what they see. You can put on adult films that will make him think of sex. Putting on porn feels like an adventure. Let him catch you while watching porn or surprise him with it after being out of the house for a while. 

Read Sensual Books Aloud

Sensual books such as erotica describe how people have sex. It can be the best to read while masturbating, following their lead. Women are likely to get turned on by these non-visual media. Read it out loud or use a sound system to amplify the voice while reading for him.

Walk To Him While Naked 

The simplest way to turn on a guy is to walk into his presence while naked. Once you do that, his attention shifts to you no matter what he is doing. 

Grab His Thighs or Introduce Footsie Plays 

This is another section that explores the power of physical touch. If you play games such as footsie or grab his thighs under the table while other people eat around, it will turn him on. It is more thrilling as there will be sexual tension because he can’t have you at that moment. 

Grab His Ass

The butt can be an erogenous region. When you touch it, your man will be turned on. 

Caress His Nipples 

According to Maister et al. (2020), nipples are part of the erogenous zones, leading to sexual arousal when stimulated. 

Send a Flirty Text Message 

According to Hall et al. (2010), flirting shows a romantic or physical attraction to another person. 

Go Down on Him

Giving your partner some oral sex is a great way to turn him on. 

Other techniques you can use to turn on your man include:

• Wearing red lingerie. 
• Offering gentle massage on his scalp.
• Wearing vaginal or sex scent. 
• Talking dirty up close to his ears.
• Nibbling on his ears or neck.

The Bottom Line

Turning a guy on for a romantic session is easy. Follow the above techniques, and you will be good to go. 

References

Leonard, A. (2010). An Investigation Of Masturbation And Coping Style. In 38th

Annual Western Pennsylvania Undergraduate Psychology Conference.

Singh, R., Ali, A., Gupta, G., Semwal, A., & Jeyabalan, G. (2013). Some medicinal plants with aphrodisiac potential: A current status. Journal of Acute Disease, 2(3), 179-188.

Moriguchi, Y., Touroutoglou, A., Dickerson, B. C., & Barrett, L. F. (2014). Sex differences in the neural correlates of affective experience. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 9(5), 591-600.

Maister, L., Fotopoulou, A., Turnbull, O., & Tsakiris, M. (2020). The erogenous mirror: intersubjective and multisensory maps of sexual arousal in men and women. Archives of sexual behavior, 49(8), 2919-2933.

Hall, J. A., Carter, S., Cody, M. J., & Albright, J. M. (2010). Individual differences in the communication of romantic interest: Development of the flirting styles inventory. Communication Quarterly, 58(4), 365-393.