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Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet

Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet

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Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet

  • by Katie Peachesa

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Key Points Summary 🎯

  • 🔥 Embrace the art of unhurried intimacy to unlock unparalleled pleasure.
  • 💬 Heightened connection and communication are paramount.
  • ⏳ Prioritise quality over quantity in your intimate escapades.

Key Advice and Tips from Our Experts 🕵️‍♀️

  • ⏰ Set aside dedicated time for leisurely lovemaking sessions.
  • 👐 Explore various forms of touch to discover new pleasure zones.
  • 🗣 Maintain open dialogue with your partner to ensure mutual satisfaction.

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Slow sex is a blissful concept that allows you to enjoy the extra pleasures of sex. It is about slowing down all your sexual engagements with your partner and being present for a more mindful sensation. Stemming from tantra, slow sex involves being more connected both mentally and physically with your partner during sex. And unlike the rushed sex that most of us commonly engage in, slow sex is an antidote to the frenzied lifestyles too common in today’s world. When your days are busy and rushed, you tend to do the same thing in your bedroom, only this has a negative impact on your love life. When you are not present and rushing, you tend not to feel the pleasure of sex like it should be. All you feel is a few thrusts and then a climax or even a faked one. You are never able to enjoy the complete pleasures of sex or even have the shattering orgasms you watch on movies.

This is particularly true for women because they take longer to climax. Research shows that most women take about 20 to 40 minutes to climax. On the other hand, men take between 5 to 10 minutes. So, it helps to slow her down, prep her in foreplay and allow her to enjoy more pleasure in sex for a shattering orgasm. Experts say that slow sex helps the man to get fully aroused and increases the stamina allowing you to last longer. Giving your body time to relax and become present to the moment is crucial to your sexual satisfaction.

Slow sex is for you if you have trouble reaching orgasm. This is because it is designed to concentrate more on feeling good than climaxing. Your focus is on feeling every touch and enjoying the sexual gestures. Pleasure is what creates orgasms. Your sexual experience must be pleasurable throughout the interaction to build up to a good and powerful orgasm. Women are rarely capable of reaching orgasm for those pop-in fucks that men love, if she lets you do it a lot, it’s not for her happiness but your, so mind her too.

Tips to Shattering Slow Sex Orgasms

Build a Sensual Ambiance

Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet

Sex does not begin during intercourse. It needs to feel right and natural. So you need to set the stage for a slow wonderful moment with your partner. Change the bedroom linens to something sexy like red, white or purple. Invite your partner to a candlelight dinner. Light scented candles and put a slow Blu&RnB CD on the stereo. Help your partner relax after dinner in a warm bath with scented aphrodisiac essential oils and salts like Jasmine to heighten the senses of their skin. Join in the bath for a relaxing and meditative time together. As you sit together in the bath, you will realize that the tension of the day starts to leave your shoulders and you both get into a slow and relax mood, with more attention to the present than you have experience in a long time. If you have children, find a sitter and have a getaway for a night or a couple of hours to make sure the moment is exclusive to you.

Prolong Foreplay 

Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet

For most people, especially those in long-term relationships, foreplay sometimes is overlooked in the heat of quickies.  One minute you are kissing, “everyone removes their own clothes” and the second minute you are penetrated. But having time for sensual foreplay will not only improve your sexual experience but also help you enjoy a more intimate relationship with your partner. Kiss your partner gently all over their body and help them undress one piece at a time. Touch and caress them slowly, bringing in some gentle rubbing, tickling and spanking. Take note of the temple, inner thighs, nipples, perineum, and balls as you caress and cuddle together. Explore each other’s pleasure spot with slow concentration to learn and discover the essence of foreplay. Use nipple stimulation devices such as nipple clamps and pumps to heighten the skin senses. You will also love using a tickler for a sensual light feather play with your partner. The more you delay penetration; the more aroused and lubricated the body gets. You can already feel it contracting and building up to an orgasm.

Enhance your Senses

Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet 

The bottom line of slow sex is to help you feel more pleasure during sex. So, it helps that you put all your senses to work during the sexual interaction. Apply taste, sight, sound, touch and feel into the mix. Use different sexual activities that pay tribute to each. Do you like edible sex? Why not apply some ice-cream or warmed chocolate on his penis and lick it up as you deliver him a blow-job. Set her boobs into a melting fall of sweetness with melted warm honey and suckle her to twisty pleasure. Why not have some temperature play? Get some high-quality metal or glass sex toys and show your partner your sensational end. Pop a glass dildo in the fridge for a few minutes and help them insert in up their vagina slowly. Let them jump with chilling love. Or let him have a nice warm metal butt plug inside their butt with a cooling anal lubricant. As you play, let yourself be present to the sounds and scents in the room. Listen to your partner’s moan and groans of pleasure.

Heightening all your senses allows you to be all there during sex giving you a sensual pathway to the shattering orgasm you haven’t experienced yet.

Finally, have Intercourse

Slow Sex - The Key to Your Most Earth Shattering Orgasm Yet

While most people tend to orgasm just from the intensity of foreplay, sex is super important to deliver you to nirvana. Once everything is heightened and your body opened up earning for entry, it is time for penetration. This play is all about the strokes. You don’t want to rush it just because your body is thrusting and throbbing with arousal. You want varying strokes between shallow intense dives and full-depth. Slow down penetration with a bit of fingering, set in a vibrator or ribbed dildo and then get in with a penis or realistic dildo. Play with different strokes but creating a rhythm that both you and your partner can follow. If you are a man, delaying and controlling your ejaculation at this point is crucial to make sure your partner gets enough before you can both climax. So consider using delay condoms or cock rings if you cannot control your ejaculation naturally for a prolonged thrusting moment. Make love to each other, everyone enjoying the moment and symphony or the other. Before long, your bodies will get to their sensual destination and you will feel shattering orgasms that are numbing. This kind of orgasm is longer-lasting and tends to explode your whole body. You might feel it from your genitals, tummy, toes and eventually the brain, setting you screaming.   Such loving cannot be compromised. It is the exclusive type of sex that every girl dreams of! Deliver it to her like a pro with Peaches and Screams, we live for such delights!


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