17 NAUGHTY TEXTING GAMES YOU MUST TRY NOW

Some sexy and naughty games that are quite interesting to play over the phone include;  truth or dare, strip poker, the game of confessions, creating stories, phone role play, and text sex.

In a world where technology dictates everything people do,  the phone is one of the greatest inventions of all time. It has made communication easier. The most people do with a phone is texting, whether with a loved one, friend, or family. These days texting can be spiced up with flirty and sexy texts, also known as sexting. Sexting is handy, especially in long-distance relationships where it always seems hard to keep the fire burning. Ever been hit with the idea of turning your crush on over text? Sexting is the way to go. Sexting also suits those who are shy to say things in person. A person can't start sexting from the blues; if you are unsure where to begin, here are naughty sexting games you can try out.

Would You Rather

Start things small with this safe but sexy game before building up the sexual tension. This game involves asking a question with two options to choose from. You can start slow with easy questions such as "would you rather chill at home or go out on a date?" and work your way up. When an opportunity strikes, you can drift the conversation sexually and get to reveal the naughty side of them.

Truth or Dare

Truth or dare is one of the naughtiest and sexiest games that will suit any new couple or flirting buddies. You can also play this game over the phone as a group. The game's all about bringing out the sexy in text. Couples can text to answer the questions or perform the dares wherever they are. You can incorporate pictures or snaps to ascertain that the person does the dares; this can also be quite a turn-on.

Strip Poker

Picture a text version of the strip poker game. Start by mentioning all the clothing you each have, including the lingerie. Normally this game uses cards, but when texting, you can take turns to ask each other questions. It could be about the personal information you shared recently or questions about your relationship. Each time the person answers a question wrong, they have to strip off one of their clothing. Use pictures as proof if you trust the person but delete the pictures after the game ends. However, it is not advisable to send pictures, especially if it's a new relationship. You can also opt to send close-up photos that don't reveal your face.

The Game of Confessions

This game may resemble the side of truth in the truth or dare game. It involves taking turns choosing a topic and confessing deep secrets about it. You can start easy and clean and turn the wheel in the romance and lust direction. This game will increase your connection on an intimate level as you both get a deeper understanding of each other. This game is also quite the turn-on.

Creating Stories

This game may be simple, but it's quite naughty and can help you see whether your date is into the whole naughty and sexting idea. This game involves starting a sentence and leaving it halfway for your partner to answer. You can start things small with this safe but sexy game if they text an answer or something that will look like a continuation of the sentence. You can do this with a few more questions as you steer the conversation in a romantic direction.

Phone Role Playing

This game can be quite arousing. You can tell your date that you want to share a story with them, and they have to add to the story with every text response. You can talk about an experience you recently shared, like a recent date. The key here is not using your names and keeping them vague. It will give them an idea of what you are talking about and make the game interesting. You can drift and make the conversation naughty and sexy with no time.

Sex Text

The first thing that comes to mind whenever you think of sexting is a conversation that involves discussing sexual activities. According to Fonagy (2008), sex text is what you think about, which requires a founded relationship. Sex texting involves asking questions like what the person is wearing as you both get aroused. You can easily steer this game to the sexual zone, but you must first understand your date's response to these questions. The conversation can be as sexual as you want it to be.

Sex Bucket List

You can text and develop specific sexual experiences that you want to share, Albury & Crawford (2012) noted. It can be simple to state what the experience you want to share is like. 'Have sex in the car' 'have sex while camping', 'have an FMF threesome'. You can also create a shared google document and have the settings notify the other person when you make changes.

Orgasm Race

Orgasm race is also another game that people in a relationship should play. Harder et al. (2020) stated that couples could masturbate and see who can reach orgasm first while sexting. Also known as a masturbation race. You can only do this if you are home alone. You can make it interesting by incorporating sex toys.

Guess What I'm Wearing

This sext is also a simple game that doesn't require much effort. It involves asking your date to guess what you are wearing at that particular moment. It also is quite arousing if you go a little deeper in the sense that you ask your partner to guess the specific underwear or its color. If they get it right, you can send them a picture of you wearing the item as a reward. You can opt to send a snippet of the fabric if you are not comfortable getting too graphic.

Remember When

Maybe you had a date somewhere where you shared an intimate moment or had a fling. You can reiterate the details over text together. You can start small with questions like 'remember when you came and sat next to me while at my place in the living room'. Your partner answers enthusiastically or with curiosity, but you can go on as you work to the good parts leaving no details behind. You can do this in turn if your partner is not the shy kind.

Plan Our Next Adventure

This is another exciting sexting game involving both of you planning something you would do the next time you meet. It doesn't have to be sexual as this game can include many variations is up to you and your partner. You can take turns to give opinions, or you can leave the decision to a single partner to plan out the whole day.

Treasure Hunt

The next time you see your partner at their place, leave something behind like underwear you wore when you were together, lingerie, lipstick, or a gift. Ensure you don't leave it in plain sight; place it somewhere they will have to look for it. You can text them that you left a little surprise for them that they will have to find. You can text, giving them clues to make the treasure hunt more interesting.

Book Club

Not every couple will be comfortable sharing their own sexual experiences for obvious reasons or if the relationship is new. It should not be a barrier to sexting; you can instead send them a link to an online erotica website. They can read about other people's erotic experiences as you are too when your partner has some free time. You can discuss your favorite scenes and make this interesting with porn.

King for a Day

According to Caillois (2001)," king for a day" is a sexting game that involves one partner being the king for a day and dictates the other person exactly what to do. It deploys the idea of submission/domination where one partner chooses the daily activity the submissive has to do. Depending on how many times you'll be playing this game, you can take turns doing this.

Sex Brainstorming

You can come across an enticing new sex technique or position that you might like to try on the internet. Avoid sending a link to your partner, adding a little message on top stating that you would like to try that with them sometime. You can ask them if they are into the idea as this is a nice game to spice things up in the bedroom.

Never Have I Ever

You can play this game in a group. It's a nice way to learn about your date's sexual experience without asking them. You can start asking about experiences you have never had, like a fling with a celebrity, and work yourself up to more realistic things like whether they've had a threesome. You can go into detail if it's alright with both of you.

Conclusion

Any sexy, naughty games will suit you; pick a few for a dirty and sexy time. The beauty of these sexting games is that you can decide how deep you want to go. They can be a turn-on and a nice warm-up towards making out the next time you meet, and you can even talk about it.

References

Albury, K., & Crawford, K. (2012). Sexting, Consent, And Young People's Ethics: Beyond Megan's Story. Continuum, 26(3), 463-473.

Caillois, R. (2001). Man, Play, And Games. University Of Illinois Press.

Fonagy, P. (2008). A Genuinely Developmental Theory Of Sexual Enjoyment And Its Implications For Psychoanalytic Technique. Journal Of The American Psychoanalytic Association, 56(1), 11-36.

Harder, S., Bentzen, J. J. V., Demant, J. J., & Maxwell, C. (2020). "Tailored Pornography": Content, Context, And Consent In Young Women's Sexting. Mediekultur: Journal Of Media And Communication Research, 36(67), 016-036.