BDSM SEX TOYS: SOME THINGS FOR YOU TO TRY

Do you wish to try different BDSM sex toys to spice your sex life? Read this article and go through the various BDSM sex toys discussed.

BDSM – bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism covers many sexual practices from dominance to submission. The decision on the types of sex toys to use during BDSM lies entirely on the masochist and sadist. Some of the extra kinky folks may want to try the 'extreme' set of toys like the cock rings that shock the penis, while the rest may want the basic toys like the cuffs and leather whips. It is best to speak to your partner before indulging in any BDSM act. This article samples some sex toys you can use during your BDSM session.

Lip Shaped O – ring Gag Toy

The gag lips, which Chrontier curates, are an upgrade from the traditional ring and ball gags, which were uncomfortable to bite on. This lip-shaped gag has a tunnel-like feature at the center that gives your teeth and lips a comfortable rest so that your mouth opens with comfort. Folks can use this toy during oral sex for those who hate the feel of teeth on their penis or are afraid of injuries. In bondage play, the sadist can use this toy to gag the masochist to experience pleasure from their suppressed voice. It also comes with a leather buckle fastener adjusted to fit perfectly around the neck.

Medium Anal Hook

The anal hook is not built for the faint-hearted because it is used during intense BDSM plays. The hook ensures that your sub receives maximum anal and vaginal pleasure. For intense emancipation, the dom can also opt to attach restraints like ropes to the hook. This toy is 6 inches long with a smooth nickel ball that stretches and pulls the anus and vagina for maximum arousal. Your partner manipulates the toy by gently pulling the end of the ring. Before use, apply water or silicone-based lube because the anus does not get wet on its own.

Electrosex Cock Ring

According to Yuan et al. (2010), penis rings promote a strong and long-lasting erection, minimizing erectile dysfunction. However, an electro-sex penis ring is not your ordinary cock ring because it shocks your penis. When used on lower settings, you can feel slight tingles on the penis. The tickling feeling is replaced with firm sensations in moderate settings because your nerves will be more aroused. This ring is made from skin-friendly silicone material that is nonporous and easy to clean.

Adjustable Nipple and Clit Clamps

First-time users of these clamps may be a little intimidated. Therefore, you should try the clamps on your fingers to prepare your mind for the intensity that comes with them. Once your mind is fully aware of the intensity of the clamps, you can place them directly on the nipples and clit. To get just the right amount of endorphin, you can opt to remove the clamps completely or readjust them to a comfortable strength. Make sure not to leave the clamps on for too long, especially if you do not plan on adjusting them.

Rubber Sheet

Extreme sheets are rubber fitted and machine washable, designed to withstand the harshest of bedroom plays. Users can use this rubber sheet with any lube, including the oil-based lubes that can destroy the latex rubber material. According to Wilson et al. (2017), lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals. Even though sleeping should be the last thing on your mind, this rubber sheet makes way for a perfect mattress if you feel too lazy to hop into bed. It is made from soft rubber, making it a good option for sleep and play.

Stainless Steel Wartenberg Pinwheel

This sex toy has revolutionized sex play in more ways than one. It is a great pick for lovemaking as well as fetish play. Equipped with 22 pins that provide distant prick-like sensations to the skin to heighten sensitivity, this stainless steel wheel is great for enhancing BDSM play. BDSM involves several activities, as explained by De Neef, Coppens, Huys, & Morrens (2019). When stainless steel Wartenberg pinwheel is used on the penis for arousal, it causes a distant tingle. The weight of the pinwheel enhances sensations in the receiver without adding pressure. It makes little to no contact with the skin, but still, the sensation is nothing short of overwhelming. 

Rubber Long Latex Fisting Mitten

According to Huffam et al. (1998), fisting is one of the sexual acts that is low in spreading HIV. This fisting toy is versatile with several uses, satisfying all kinds of fetishes. This toy was initially designed for deep fisting, and the fingerless glove offers a reliable barrier during deep penetration. It is an ideal pick for folks with long nails that may hurt soft tissues in the anus and vagina. For lovers of pony and puppy play, this fisting mitten is good for creating the paws and hooves feel. As is the case with all latex garments, these rubber gloves are tight and will need some practice. 

Deluxe Fetish Sex Swing

The deluxe fetish swing will help you master every position in the Kama Sutra. The swing is made from industrial-grade steel and reinforced with straps for support. This fetish swing hangs from any ceiling to enhance any position for a night of eternal pleasure. It comes with two body straps and two stirrups to experiment with. For a much more comfy experience, the swing has plush pads that make the play extremely comfortable and ensure safety. Deluxe has a length of 20.5 inches, and its metallic material can hold up to 150 kg of weight.

The Bottom Line

BDSM sex toys strengthen the sexual and mental parts of any relationship. Bondage play is a highly recommended sexual play between couples because of the sensations that come with it. There is no right way to practice BDSM, and this is because of the broad categories that are in it. People who practice BDSM see it as a form of building vulnerability that births trust because you give your partner the freedom to explore your body without limit. People who have sex toys should use them with care to avoid injuries and pain after the play.

References

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Yuan, J., Hoang, A. N., Romero, C. A., Lin, H., Dai, Y., & Wang, R. (2010). Vacuum therapy in erectile dysfunction—science and clinical evidence. International journal of impotence research, 22(4), 211-219.

De Neef, N., Coppens, V., Huys, W., & Morrens, M. (2019). Bondage-discipline, dominance-submission and sadomasochism (BDSM) from an integrative biopsychosocial perspective: A systematic review. Sexual Medicine, 7(2), 129-144.Huffam, S., Haber, P., Wallace, J., & Bradford, D. (1998). Talking with the patient: risk assessment and history-taking. HIV, viral hepatitis and STIs, 38.